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Ranger
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You are not understanding. You have more interest in battling ideas. I use to be that way. I remember when I was like that. Good luck.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Music_czar
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Howie, the problem with posting on the regular DJ forum is that you end up getting trolled/flamed by a lot of younger guys who come here and just regurgitate the whole “just be a man and lead and they will follow” bs. Any older guy who’s been dealing with dozens of women over the years in both short term flings and long term relationships knows (hot) women are almost never this easy to handle.
Don’t take it to heart, some people just come here to talk big instead of just being honest in order to find their weaknesses and improve themselves.
And then we have men like you who has been butthurt and can't learn to take the punishment like a man.
You're here posting on how butthurt u r and then teaching others to basically learn butthurt techniques.
The snake that enjoys eating it's own tail and never letting go.
If a man can't even understand this simple concept, don't even talk abt leading women, he can't even function properly in real life as a productive person.
He's whole being is then one of a parasite.
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Ranger
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True statement Spaz. How does one even start to live a life? It can be painful but that’s where character is built. That’s where a boy becomes a man.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Ranger
Guest
He’s not angry in the least. LolHaha I love pissing you off it’s just so easy
Way to keep strong frame
Straight up fact. There isn’t an accomplished man on here that doesn’t know this.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Tricking her"?
R
Ranger
Guest
Sure. Making her believe that he was an optimized man when underneath he was reducible and easy to give up his balls.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah but what if we know their nature and know that one. We want her nectar. We dont like how bad she could be. We cant admit that to them?
R
Ranger
Guest
Oh I think you should handle crap as soon as possible. Obviously there are ways better than jumping down her throat. Lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I like that. Down her throat.
Exactly.
What's admirable abt a parasite ?
Women should rightly dump him then allowing his DNA to spread even further.
R
Ranger
Guest
Underneath I think that’s what it’s really about. Denying him the opportunity to further his DNA.
Cutting him out of the gene pool.
She has no control over her shutting down. Her biology makes her cut him off.
Oh that’s an angle I hadn’t thought of yet. Nice Spaz.
The feminine biological imperative is nature's answer towards the survival and progress of the human species.
They'll cut off deviants ruthlessly.
Yes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This whole alpha/beta and male/female imperative is just a way to attempt to explain someone's (or our own) behavior to sooth egos. In reality things don't work that way. In fact, I find it funny when I read this sort of stuff because if we're really talking about alpha/beta/omega in a wolf pack typically only the alpha male and alpha female breed, that's it. So if there are beta males there are also beta females who never should breed. Wolves don't fvck for pleasure like us humans. We've evolved to the point where both males and females fvck for entertainment. Sure the 23yo still wants to have a family but she's not running around with some biological imperative...she's love stricken by that guy she saw at at the mall for whatever reason and if they meet they'll breed. But consider the women who are 35+ who've already had kids and don't want anymore, they still love to fvck just to fvck like us and many times just as a ONS. So they're not denying anyone of anything, it simply boils down to attraction. If she finds you attractive she'll fvck. Simple as that.
Forget all that for a min and think that if the feminine biological imperative was true as you guys say and most of us here were betas (that's the argument right?) then NO woman would've ever slept with us. That's not the case here for most of us though. We've had plenty of women, we've even been married and procreated. So that argument just doesn't hold.
Forget all that for a min and think that if the feminine biological imperative was true as you guys say and most of us here were betas (that's the argument right?) then NO woman would've ever slept with us. That's not the case here for most of us though. We've had plenty of women, we've even been married and procreated. So that argument just doesn't hold.
No, the argument holds.
The top tier guys are rare, the lower ranking males are in abundance, which means the lower ranking guys will still get laid and have relationships because you have lower ranking women who can't get the top guys so what does she do?
Every girl wants the top guys but every girl can't get them, that's were the weaker males come in.
Don't think because your getting laid or because you have been in many relationships that means your not a low status man, it just means that the women in your life are either low status themselves or you got settled for and most likely got mistreated, cheated on and dumped for a more attractive guy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I got female friends some of the "top" guys politicians, lawyer, doctor can be a pain in the ass to the ladies.
Those are not top guys, your career doesn't make you a top tier guy or alpha or whatever term ss wants to use.
You can be a lawyer but still be unattractive, passive, submissive, weak ECT
You can be a doctor and still be clingy and needy ECT your profession doesn't make you a attractive man.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.