Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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I don’t like the sound of this at all. Probably wouldn’t meet with this guy alone.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I get they belonged to her. My question is where do they go now?No, the 2 kids belongs to the deceased. not his.
That’s why it’s questionable.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, i think your right. And it’s inappropriate meeting him instead of going to the wake directly.I don’t like the sound of this at all. Probably wouldn’t meet with this guy alone.
The kids future is questionable, I don’t think the bf would adopt them since they’re not married.I get they belonged to her. My question is where do they go now?
My concern is that that the dude that is going to inherit the kids, and he is meeting to try and lay them off on you.
Any chance he thinks they're yours?
Amy suicide note?
Girl's parents?
But pm on fb for a meet is a little suspicious.
High probability it's NOT just to get some answers. Either gonna try and blame you (won't wanna blame himself) or maybe kill you.
I don’t think so, we are all friends we all know we haven’t get in touch for a long time.Maybe he believes that you both had an affair and wants to question you about it
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That’s what im thinking but he told me when im close to the location where he’s at, he’ll just pm me the place where it’s convenient to meet.He wants to meet? Fine, but it has to be on your terms. You choose time, place, date, etc. Like someone else said, public place with lots of witness and cameras and stuff. Maybe have him come to your home a put a nanny cam. Or meet in a public park that's close to a police station. Or a mall that has security.
What is he trying to do a drug deal?That’s what im thinking but he told me when im close to the location where he’s at, he’ll just pm me the place where it’s convenient to meet.
Clue. I knew itAlright guys, shows over.
Went to the funeral and indeed they don’t believe my lady friend commited a suicide.
One of the kids heard a loud voice then suddenly disappeared before they declared that she committed suicide.
In short there’s a foul play.
Autopsy report says that there’s a thumb pressure on her neck.
The 2 kids are going to stay with the grandmother.
BF left the country.
There will be an ongoing investigation with the police and criminal investigation stuff.
I’m glad that my gut feeling was right as some of you also had. (There’s something not right about bf trying to meet with me before her body was placed at the funeral).
Thank you for your time helping me analyze the situation.
Very helpful forum/community indeed.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Me? Yeah I guess so.Can you say dodged a bullet??
Thank you.Your spider senses probably saved your ass. To bad about your friend. My sympathies.
Let the police take care of that problem brother.maybe he killed her?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.