Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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I don’t like the sound of this at all. Probably wouldn’t meet with this guy alone.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I get they belonged to her. My question is where do they go now?No, the 2 kids belongs to the deceased. not his.
That’s why it’s questionable.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, i think your right. And it’s inappropriate meeting him instead of going to the wake directly.I don’t like the sound of this at all. Probably wouldn’t meet with this guy alone.
The kids future is questionable, I don’t think the bf would adopt them since they’re not married.I get they belonged to her. My question is where do they go now?
My concern is that that the dude that is going to inherit the kids, and he is meeting to try and lay them off on you.
Any chance he thinks they're yours?
Amy suicide note?
Girl's parents?
But pm on fb for a meet is a little suspicious.
High probability it's NOT just to get some answers. Either gonna try and blame you (won't wanna blame himself) or maybe kill you.
I don’t think so, we are all friends we all know we haven’t get in touch for a long time.Maybe he believes that you both had an affair and wants to question you about it
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That’s what im thinking but he told me when im close to the location where he’s at, he’ll just pm me the place where it’s convenient to meet.He wants to meet? Fine, but it has to be on your terms. You choose time, place, date, etc. Like someone else said, public place with lots of witness and cameras and stuff. Maybe have him come to your home a put a nanny cam. Or meet in a public park that's close to a police station. Or a mall that has security.
What is he trying to do a drug deal?That’s what im thinking but he told me when im close to the location where he’s at, he’ll just pm me the place where it’s convenient to meet.
Clue. I knew itAlright guys, shows over.
Went to the funeral and indeed they don’t believe my lady friend commited a suicide.
One of the kids heard a loud voice then suddenly disappeared before they declared that she committed suicide.
In short there’s a foul play.
Autopsy report says that there’s a thumb pressure on her neck.
The 2 kids are going to stay with the grandmother.
BF left the country.
There will be an ongoing investigation with the police and criminal investigation stuff.
I’m glad that my gut feeling was right as some of you also had. (There’s something not right about bf trying to meet with me before her body was placed at the funeral).
Thank you for your time helping me analyze the situation.
Very helpful forum/community indeed.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Me? Yeah I guess so.Can you say dodged a bullet??
Thank you.Your spider senses probably saved your ass. To bad about your friend. My sympathies.
Let the police take care of that problem brother.maybe he killed her?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.