"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do you think the dating scene overall favors men?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women by far! Men have to be born with a certain personality or fall in the right social circle. A man can have everything about him together but still struggle with women. Furthermore, the advice men get is always contradicting. We were told to be gentlemen as a kid...wrong. We were told to improve ourselves financially and physically. Well I see broke af bums having zero issues getting laid and I see beer belly bubbas with hot women all the time. In addition, the marketplace for men is mostly trash because the vast majority women don’t even have to improve themselves(looks, status, personality) to even get attention and they are picky af.
 

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We were told to improve ourselves financially and physically. Well I see broke af bums having zero issues getting laid and I see beer belly bubbas with hot women all the time.
Yeah but what works for them may not work for you so focus on ubiquitous things and playing to your strengths

I'm really funny so i can more successfully run certain kinds of game that more serious guys wouldn't be able to pull off

Likewise, the fat guy could have a giant inheritance and those bums might be really cool in the hood where he met the girl but unless those things apply to you you aren't playing their game
 

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Women by far! Men have to be born with a certain personality or fall in the right social circle. A man can have everything about him together but still struggle with women. Furthermore, the advice men get is always contradicting. We were told to be gentlemen as a kid...wrong. We were told to improve ourselves financially and physically. Well I see broke af bums having zero issues getting laid and I see beer belly bubbas with hot women all the time. In addition, the marketplace for men is mostly trash because the vast majority women don’t even have to improve themselves(looks, status, personality) to even get attention and they are picky af.
and thats why they will work ****ty job for rest of their lifes
 

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Yeah but what works for them may not work for you so focus on ubiquitous things and playing to your strengths

I'm really funny so i can more successfully run certain kinds of game that more serious guys wouldn't be able to pull off

Likewise, the fat guy could have a giant inheritance and those bums might be really cool in the hood where he met the girl but unless those things apply to you you aren't playing their game
I answered that with the certain personality part at the beginning of my post. Again, I don’t see any shy introverted girls having issues finding men?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah but what works for them may not work for you so focus on ubiquitous things and playing to your strengths

I'm really funny so i can more successfully run certain kinds of game that more serious guys wouldn't be able to pull off

Likewise, the fat guy could have a giant inheritance and those bums might be really cool in the hood where he met the girl but unless those things apply to you you aren't playing their game
In the end, men and women both, we're all just people. You just don't know what some woman you don't know yet is going to find attractive. You can count on one hand the kind of PUA tips/principles that really matter. Guys here make it way more complex than it needs to be.
 

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In the end, men and women both, we're all just people. You just don't know what some woman you don't know yet is going to find attractive. You can count on one hand the kind of PUA tips/principles that really matter. Guys here make it way more complex than it needs to be.
I agree that anybody has the ability to make improvements in his or her life but men shouldn’t have to act like a completely different person to attract a woman. While women don’t have to do absolutely ****.
 

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I answered that with the certain personality part at the beginning of my post. Again, I don’t see any shy introverted girls having issues finding men?
I counter with "i don't see men who bang hotties every weekend having trouble getting girls but girls who bang hot guys every weekend often have trouble getting getting guys to commit"

Being shy and introverted only works for pretty girls btw, shy and introverted HB6's tend to be single or have an online LDR or something. Shy and introverted hot guys have girls openly making passes at them
 
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I agree that anybody has the ability to make improvements in his or her life but men shouldn’t have to act like a completely different person to attract a woman. While women don’t have to do absolutely ****.
Are you kidding me? Women act like different people to attract guys all the time. Putting on make up and doing our hair before a date is an act in and of itself to look different, better, then we look in our natural state. I mean fake eyelashes alone.... How about fake breasts, fake tans?

Also dumbing it down, pretending to be interested in sports we don't watch, being way more agreeable than we usually are, laughing more smiling more.

Everyone does things like this to a certain extent to get in the door so to speak.

Sometimes, impressing the opposite sex involves a bit of acting. But there's a line between impressing someone with your social skills by asking them questions about their interests when you don't really care about those things (we all do that) and saying you're a doctor or retired NBA player or pretending you are wealthy.

Everyone peacocks and puts on a good face when trying to attract the opposite sex. It's always been that way.

Self improvement and acting like a different person are two separate things though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why are you here?
Why are you here? It seems like you are here to post your opinions as the absolute truth then openly challange people to dispute them, refusing to consider any perspective other than your own and call people names. If that's not troll behaviour I don't know what is.

On one of your recent threads you stated that it's "my thread" and for people to get off of it if they won't look at your video and argue for or against it.

You don't own any threads here. This is not your personal blog.

If you have all these hot women and LMS then why are you here, trying to convince everyone and calling them blue pill if they disagree with you. Why are you not out enjoying life with these hot women?
 

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Are you kidding me? Women act like different people to attract guys all the time. Putting on make up and doing our hair before a date is an act in and of itself to look different, better, then we look in our natural state. I mean fake eyelashes alone.... How about fake breasts, fake tans?

Also dumbing it down, pretending to be interested in sports we don't watch, being way more agreeable than we usually are, laughing more smiling more.

Everyone does things like this to a certain extent to get in the door so to speak.

Sometimes, impressing the opposite sex involves a bit of acting. But there's a line between impressing someone with your social skills by asking them questions about their interests when you don't really care about those things (we all do that) and saying you're a doctor or retired NBA player or pretending you are wealthy.

Everyone peacocks and puts on a good face when trying to attract the opposite sex. It's always been that way.

Self improvement and acting like a different person are two separate things though.
self improvement and acting "faking/pretending" a different person (when need) can be THE SAME thing. sometimes you need to fake something for better results, unless you want to remain true and then, for example be poor or dont get laid.


Also in current dating realities most women dont even need to put their make up, or to have good job, or to be fit (while men need). I never asked any woman to wear make up. Nor my friends did. They do it to look better. For THEMSELVES. but most men dont require that from you.



not to mention, man needs to be interesting because women usually cant make interesting date on her own, if no man influence it would be boring date
 

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Why are you here? It seems like you are here to post your opinions as the absolute truth then openly challange people to dispute them, refusing to consider any perspective other than your own and call people names. If that's not troll behaviour I don't know what is.

On one of your recent threads you stated that it's "my thread" and for people to get off of it if they won't look at your video and argue for or against it.

You don't own any threads here. This is not your personal blog.

If you have all these hot women and LMS then why are you here, trying to convince everyone and calling them blue pill if they disagree with you. Why are you not out enjoying life with these hot women?
Why are you here?

I don't allow people to topic switch on me. If I ask a question, I will not engage you until you answer it. Then I will address your questions toward me after.

Thanks.
 

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I counter with "i don't see men who bang hotties every weekend having trouble getting girls but girls who bang hot guys every weekend often have trouble getting getting guys to commit"

Being shy and introverted only works for pretty girls btw, shy and introverted HB6's tend to be single or have an online LDR or something. Shy and introverted hot guys have girls openly making passes at them
Boohoo picky girls that have nothing of value to offer other than their vagina can’t get the cream of the crop guys to commit. Of course a shy introverted guy that looks like Liam Hemingsworth will still get action. However, not every guy looks like Liam Hemingsworth!
 

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Are you kidding me? Women act like different people to attract guys all the time. Putting on make up and doing our hair before a date is an act in and of itself to look different, better, then we look in our natural state. I mean fake eyelashes alone.... How about fake breasts, fake tans?

Also dumbing it down, pretending to be interested in sports we don't watch, being way more agreeable than we usually are, laughing more smiling more.

Everyone does things like this to a certain extent to get in the door so to speak.

Sometimes, impressing the opposite sex involves a bit of acting. But there's a line between impressing someone with your social skills by asking them questions about their interests when you don't really care about those things (we all do that) and saying you're a doctor or retired NBA player or pretending you are wealthy.

Everyone peacocks and puts on a good face when trying to attract the opposite sex. It's always been that way.

Self improvement and acting like a different person are two separate things though.
Putting on makeup and doing hair is just maintaining personal hygiene not faking a personality. Do you not shower, trim/shave, workout, or anything?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Boohoo picky girls that have nothing of value to offer other than their vagina can’t get the cream of the crop guys to commit. Of course a shy introverted guy that looks like Liam Hemingsworth will still get action. However, not every guy looks like Liam Hemingsworth!
And the shy ugly girls are single for years too
 

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In the short term, women have a complete monopoly in the fating world esp online be it dating or through social media. Youtubers with zero talent and sex appeal with breasts do better then high content value adding males. it has to be a banger for the male to do really well. So, when a woman is on top form SMV, she has a complete monopoly with options and orbiters all the while, being a *** dumpster for the alpha male. The 1%er male who is a model or born just ridiculously good looking, won the genetic lottery has a complete monopoly on the game. You take a Jon Jones who is a classic example of genetic predisposition, not shocking he has 4 kids out of wedlock with 3 different women. White women love chasing down any black male who has it going on.

In terms of the long game, men have it going on due to biology. Women's biology begins to fail them after like 23 when SMV begins to crater. You combine cocaine, molly, booze, one night stands, inactive gym membership, crushing mackers, and fast food. It just amplies the degenerative process. Women like bread or wine. Men age like a fine wine (assuming he lifts, keeps test levels up, learns GAME, gets a ****ing life, creates an ideal lifestyle, is a free thinker, and isn't plugged into the matrix at the mercy of his own biology).

A woman has her teens and 20s to acquire the alpha male all the while her hypergamy is on roids. Men can have their teens and until 40. Quite frankly, I cannot see myself being involved seriously until after 35. At that point, if I am not married or settle down (which I don't believe in), I again question the merit as well as the value.
 

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Putting on makeup and doing hair is just maintaining personal hygiene not faking a personality. Do you not shower, trim/shave, workout, or anything?
Peterson just had vice interview. Why do women wear heels and makeup? Its attempt to push sex appeal and be MORE not less desirable. Doing hair is hygiene. Make up is fake. Heels, push up bra, implants, ass implants, skin tight stretchy pants, etc. are all attempts to push sexual markets. Not hygiene.

This cute little narrative that you've bought in will burn you. Mate, step your game up.
 
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