"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What up.

This is going to be the official nofap progress report for January.

My goal is to never jerk off again in my life. But that starts with day 1, then day 10, then day 30, then day 100.

So lets go forth.

All who want to Join, please do so.

All who want to troll, please do so. ;)

-Narcissist
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Day 30. First 20 days felt the urge to do it, not very strong, but still.
Since a week - 10 days, all back to normal.

Positives: a little bit more energy, easier to approach girls and thinking/speaking is more clear than before.
 
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failed.

back to day 1 starting tomorrow. I am going to relentlessly stick to this until I quit. I'm an addict and I will keep trying regardless of failure
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Last fap was 2 weeks ago, i deleted around 15k vids and 40k pics from my pc last week, hardest decision i made in my life in the last 6 months. My biggest motivators are: energy, lower dht to reduce hair loss, more focus, and higher dopamine sensitivity to make things more pleasurable.


M U S T W A T C H


If you want to take it a step further to increase your focus, energy, and dopamine sensitivity, watch this too

 
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day 1 complete!
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Failed after 25 days, day 1 for me today.

It was easy when I did 8 months nofap but after that it seems hard to keep at it for at least 1 month.

I didnt watch porn in over a year which was the biggest issue for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Day 40+, urge to do it disappeared completely. Feels good!
 
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I’m doing increments. Relapsed after 15 days. So now I’m in day 2 and want to do 30 days
 
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It seems the most difficult thing for me is that when I take a bath at then end of the day (about 4 or 5 in morning, as I keep "Hef" hours), I think about the great gals on Chaturbate, or the good videos & pics I have in my stash (an internet search of "blondie belly dancer monroe" leads to favorite), and it gets me going while laying in the tub; it seems to be a Pavlovian reaction to me ending my day. I don't know - maybe I'm just very healthy now, but lately I've been able to get sp3rm to reach my forehead, and it has made it a good bit easier for me to get a good night's rest (which I suppose keeps me healthy, thereby continuing the good trend). Now when I am traveling and within access of "personal services", I am able to resist for a number of days, so as to get the most "bang" for my hour of coin in the "parking meter".

There may be some type of zen, Obi-Wan type of consciousness in NoFap, but I tend to think that it is an unnecessary denial of hedonic pleasure. In fact, I would say that the expectation of pleasure at the end of the day motivates me to work hard, perhaps calling me back to the motivation of the Beta, who must toil to get 'tang.
 
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