Milfhunter95
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Is it just around my area that it's considered weird to DM a girl on social media these days? I never really understood why, just a few years ago it was okay
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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It really depends on what the message is.....not the fact that you send a message.
I would normally only DM someone on FB or Instagram under 2 conditions (obviously if I have interest):
1.) she posts something that I am very knowledgeable about or interested in.
2.) We have several mutual friends that I am close with and would give good feedback about me.
Example:
Woman posts a pic that catches my eye, so I send her "Well hello lol. I just saw the pic of you out boating this weekend. What group of people do you normally boat with?"
A woman added me 2 weeks ago. She was cute, single and we have several mutual friends.
"Hello lol. Curious, how do you know _______?". That led to a lay 8 days later.
If I send a DM, its always a curious question, friendly and non aggressive. Based on how she responds determines if I reply back or not. Most of the time she will turn my question into a question of her own if there is interest on her part.... "Hey! I know so and so....how do you know him/her?"
"hey! Yeah I go out with so and so on their boat on occasion. Do you know them and do you have a boat"?
Rarely a chick doesnt read the message or doesnt respond. Dont sweat it. Its a numbers game.
I would normally only DM someone on FB or Instagram under 2 conditions (obviously if I have interest):
1.) she posts something that I am very knowledgeable about or interested in.
2.) We have several mutual friends that I am close with and would give good feedback about me.
Example:
Woman posts a pic that catches my eye, so I send her "Well hello lol. I just saw the pic of you out boating this weekend. What group of people do you normally boat with?"
A woman added me 2 weeks ago. She was cute, single and we have several mutual friends.
"Hello lol. Curious, how do you know _______?". That led to a lay 8 days later.
If I send a DM, its always a curious question, friendly and non aggressive. Based on how she responds determines if I reply back or not. Most of the time she will turn my question into a question of her own if there is interest on her part.... "Hey! I know so and so....how do you know him/her?"
"hey! Yeah I go out with so and so on their boat on occasion. Do you know them and do you have a boat"?
Rarely a chick doesnt read the message or doesnt respond. Dont sweat it. Its a numbers game.
Milfhunter95
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I agree with you that's the only way I DM a girl too.
But this isn't really a question about me. I have a buddy who has messaged girls I know, and if I'm ever out with them, they'll say something along the lines like "Ew, so and so DM'd me. I didn't respond though"
Could it be cause he's just messaging them with no topic?
This has kind of prevented me from messaging new girls. I'll usually only DM girls that I know, but I want to expand
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Who knows what he is saying to them. If he is acting creepy, or isn't attractive and they are, the outcome will be them talking negatively about it.
I don't really act interested in them when I message them, rather on what I am asking them about (common interests or mutual friends).
I believe that through fb and Instagram it's important to build rapport but be indifferent.
Now if the woman starts messaging me first , it's a different story.
I don't really act interested in them when I message them, rather on what I am asking them about (common interests or mutual friends).
I believe that through fb and Instagram it's important to build rapport but be indifferent.
Now if the woman starts messaging me first , it's a different story.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.