"You just want sex"

[TheMonkeyKing]

What are your best responses when a girl levels this accusation ?

 

[AttackFormation]

Personally I pre-empt it by making a joke about how all she wants me for is sex.

 

[Glassguy]

What are your best responses when a girl levels this accusation ?

Tell her that you find her attractive and of course having sex with her is part of that. That will almost immediately bring on the "talk" about what you are wanting from her.

You can either string her along and then ghost once you smash or you can be honest and tell her you just want to go out and have a good time. She will know what you mean.

 

[TheFixer14]

I tell her to suck my d!ck because I think I'm based god.

 

[dude99]

What are your best responses when a girl levels this accusation ?

"Mmm hmmm. How naughty of me."

 

[Killakittie]

"Your reverse psychology won't work on me. Behave yourself!"

 

[BeExcellent]

I think @AttackFormation nails it. This statement doesn't not deflect or deny the fact that you as the man want sex. Any woman silly enough to just blurt this out is stating the obvious and to me it suggests fear, inexperience or jadedness and it's impossible to know which...(unless she's teasing you - I've said this in a teasing way to acknowledge the sexual expectation and to build tension.)

The delivery of such a statement from a woman means EVERYTHING.

I think a smile and "Well Duh, if you play your cards right" with a light tone also accomplishes the same thing as AttackFormation's example.

In any case if it's testing OR teasing you respond and keep the conversation moving. No reason for this to create a logjam.

 

[Trump]

What are your best responses when a girl levels this accusation ?

Bro that statement is not an "accusation". She didn't go to the police and "accuse" you of anything. It's a simple statement.

"All you want is sex."
I would reply "What else do you bring to the table?"

If she brings money to the table or some important connections, sex can be put off or negotiated.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

She didn't go to the police and "accuse" you of anything.

I know. It was a figure of speech.

Tell her that you find her attractive and of course having sex with her is part of that. That will almost immediately bring on the "talk" about what you are wanting from her.

Bingo. I took this slightly less inflammatory path (she's Italian and therefore extra firey) and that is exactly what resulted.

TMK: " Oh darling. I find you very attractive, so of course I want to have sex with you. But I also enjoy your company and would like to know you better. Nothing unusual in that".

ITALIAN CHICK: "No there's not. I thought you just wanted sex last time."

TMK: "I'm a bit busy for the next week, but have a birthday soon so we should go out and celebrate. Let me know when you're free."

ITALIAN CHICK: "Do you mean this weekend?"

Job done. Thanks guys.

 

[wifehunter]

I haven't laid a hand on you.

 

[TheCuckSlayer]

"I don't know what to say to that. Goodbye"

Then you grab your coat, leave and delete her number on the way out.

And that, kids, is how you fail a sh1t test.

 

[Dingo]

Actions over words....Part of the Anti-slut defense.

I just got the "you know I didn't call you over for a booty call".... As she was stripping off her clothes...

 

[wifehunter]

It really doesn't matter if she thinks you "just want sex". You've lost before she asked the question, and she's already headed out the door anyway. As they say...Next!

 

[kronreiff]

Just say, "Ya, I just banged one, jacked off and banged 2 more, and now it's your turn". If she doesn't comply, spin the next plate!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

"Pffft, and you don't?"

Women conform to what the boundaries of a social standard. You have to be a strong enough individual to be able to set your own standards and make her feel like your standards are actual social rules. A woman's number one fear is public shaming, so if you make her feel embarrassed or awkward for telling you or asking you something, then she won't bring it up again and you will have shifted her idea of the social construct more towards yours and also you would also make her self esteem to rely slighlty more upon your affirmations of her (make her slightly more insecure). Yes this may be a bit sociopathic, but I have realized that this is how influential people are. Have a strong personality.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yup and?
Or
”why? Don't you like sex?”

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

"Yup."

The greater shamelessness in your response, the better.

 

[old_skoolr]

Girl : You just want sex

Old Skoolr: Well not just sex, I'd like a sandwich afterwards too.

 

[MrOctober]

It really doesn't matter if she thinks you "just want sex". You've lost before she asked the question, and she's already headed out the door anyway. As they say...Next!

Yup. That's what I got out of that from my own situations I've seen.

 

[playa99]

Your the one with sex on the mind, stop trying to seduce me, woman!

or a simple 'yeah'