Do you copy paste this to every girl?

[Konada]

Been using a template for sending out messages to women on OLD and this seems like an overt test I can't seem to pass. What responses are there to this?

 

[logicallefty]

You have to remember that in OLD the women are reading dozens of messages at a time. Your message needs to be the odd one in the crowd that gets her attention. Here is one I might use and the particulars of what it contains:

"Hey (her first name if she posted it) Lefty here. I looked at your profile and you don't seem like a gold digger or mental case so today is your lucky day, I would like to shoot the sh|t with you. Congrats. Hope to hear from you by the 32nd of this month? Lefty"

"Hey (first name)" - Lets her know you looked at her profile, not just pic. They like that.
"you don't seem like a gold digger or mental case" - A small compliment
"today is your lucky day" - c0cky/funny
"I would like to shoot the sh|t with you" - to the point
"congrats" - confident
"hope to hear from you by the 32nd of the month" - mysterious. Nearly all will ask "What does that mean?" I respond "I am a man of many mysteries, you will have to talk to me a little longer before I tell you that"


This is just one sample of what I might do. Use this or write your own, but use the elements I used in mine and keep it short and sweet.

 

[old_skoolr]

Women: Do you copy paste to every girl?

Old_skoolr: Pretty much, its my way of screening which girls are worth talking to.

OP what message do you send to girls on OLD sites?

 

[Konada]

Women: Do you copy paste to every girl?

Old_skoolr: Pretty much, its my way of screening which girls are worth talking to.

OP what message do you send to girls on OLD sites?

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Hey! I'm not into the back and forth texting or pen pal thing. I'd like us to meet for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you

I've gotten some pretty harsh rejections along the lines of 'Go find someone else who is into that sort of thing'

 

[marmel75]

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Hey! I'm not into the back and forth texting or pen pal thing. I'd like us to meet for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you

I've gotten some pretty harsh rejections along the lines of 'Go find someone else who is into that sort of thing'

Hi is the worst thing you could possibly send as a first message online. They get tons of these lame first messages already, no need to add to it.

 

[old_skoolr]

Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Hey! I'm not into the back and forth texting or pen pal thing. I'd like us to meet for a coffee one night this week and get to know each other better. Let me know if that sounds good to you

I've gotten some pretty harsh rejections along the lines of 'Go find someone else who is into that sort of thing'

Hi is pretty generic but whatever works for you.

To be fair, you do have to work on some rapport online before you can throw the lets meet up card.
Though it all depends on the girl.

 

[playa99]

What @Espi said. You need to lead her with your language. No fluffyness. In your template, your direct but then go fluffy and give her the option. No 'if your free' or 'if that works with you'

Your not going to get a better response by asking softly.