How to figure out if someone is in a relationship

[Prodoge]

Any easy subtle ways of working out if someone has a gf/bf to make sure to not be wasting time?

 

[Genesis5]

Ask her out on a date - if she's interested and single, or even just interested; your answer will be yes.

If it's no - than she's not interested or tell you she has a BF, and even if she doesn't, you're wasting your time.

 

[dustmuffin]

Just ask them out. They say yes, no problem solved. You shouldn't be concerned with that.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Just ask them out. They say yes, no problem solved. You shouldn't be concerned with that.

This.
She has no boyfriend and wants your d¡ck: she says yes.
She has no boyfriend and does not want your d¡ck: she says no.
She has boyfriend and wants your d¡ck: she says yes.
She has boyfriend and does not want your d¡ck: she says no.

This would classify as a buffer against rejection (yes, I'm re-reading The Rational Male). This said, in the "stop overthinking" ways of DonJuanism, the question is good, and we should be interested in the answers if only because of curiosity about female body language when in the "honeymoon" phase.

 

[marmel75]

It has no bearing on anything. If you want to go out with them, ask them out.

 

[Bible_Belt]

As soon as you start talking to her, she should realize why. And if she has a bf, she will bring him up in conversation immediately if she wants to reject you softly.

 

[Prodoge]

Well lets go and find out!

 

[GoodOne123]

Honestly, it's OK to just ask directly. In fact, most women will respect you more for this, since you are confident enough to state what you want and are not hiding your intentions from her.

Mid conversation just say "are you single by the way?" or if you want to be polite say "excuse me if I'm being a bit direct, but I wanted to know if you're single?". If it's a yes then ask them out on a date. But usually you can tell if a girl is single and interested just by her vibe.

 

[Young OG]

"So, [her name] are you madly in love with anyone right now?"

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Any easy subtle ways of working out if someone has a gf/bf to make sure to not be wasting time?

This is why it's suggested to collect prospects all the time. Game on all the time, try not think of it as waste of time it's all practice, push to escalate & get sum action.

There are broads out there always looking to monkey branch and or have multiple guys they are seeing as well. Just get use to the fact that it is part of the game & you shouldn't give 2 fvcks. You will eventually meet some that will lie about it's inevitable. It happens ALL the time.

 

[marmel75]

This is why it's suggested to collect prospects all the time. Game on all the time, try not think of it as waste of time it's all practice, push to escalate & get sum action.

There are broads out there always looking to monkey branch and or have multiple guys they are seeing as well. Just get use to the fact that it is part of the game & you shouldn't give 2 fvcks. You will eventually meet some that will lie about it's inevitable. It happens ALL the time.

It's irrelevant if they have a boyfriend, husband, or whatever. It's not a mans job to be a fvcking detective. It's a mans job to go for what he wants.

 

[Prodoge]

Unrelated question: all this DJ lifestyle is it directly taken from Moliere's play ?

 

[bigneil]

Any easy subtle ways of working out if someone has a gf/bf to make sure to not be wasting time?

Yes. You have sex with her.

Or you ask "Are you single?"

 

[MrWood]

never ask
if she says she has a boyfriend, always counter with
"I didnt ask if you have a boyfriend, I asked you out for a drink"

 

[RangerMIke]

Ask her out on a date - if she's interested and single, or even just interested; your answer will be yes.

If it's no - than she's not interested or tell you she has a BF, and even if she doesn't, you're wasting your time.

True. However, some women in relationships will go out with you if they are attracted and/or their relationship is weak and she is looking for validation. You can figure this out on your date when you attempt to escalate. Eventually she will tell you and let you know the deal if anything is going to happen. At that point follow your conscious. I never mess with women in relationships, too much trouble and it really isn't a lot of fun working around this BS. I know some guys that carry on affairs with married women all the time.... and it seems to work for them, I guess it's an element of excitement, if this is you what do I care. If I want excitement, I'll go skydiving or rock climbing.