I Dumped My GF Today On Her Birthday

[LiveFreeX]

You are only reeling because you have very few options, or none. When I was down and out over a girl, I would just take a trip to another country with a couple thousand bucks. Not only could I not talk or see that girl again but I was so overloaded with a new experience that my brain went to work right away, overwriting those bad feelings with the need to survive, locate a place to live, food to eat and a hot girl to help me get it all done.

Open world video games also help with that feeling quite a bit because you can lose yourself for awhile and concentrate on something else. Recommend: X Beyond The Frontier.

 

[soulforge]

Well today i went back to the gym for the first time in two weeks.. feel a little better after a good workout

 

[soulforge]

I have a question guys?

How would you feel if your GF arranged a girls holiday abroad right infront of you.. and did not even bother to talk or discuss it with you at all?

Also u know she will be outhere drinking and getting drunk with her friends!!

 

[soulforge]

Any thoughts on this?

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

She's traveling to h0 around buddy. Sorry to say.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Any thoughts on this?

Hasn't this entire thread been addressing this?

 

[soulforge]

Hasn't this entire thread been addressing this?

Lol yes atom.. i just wanted opinions from other guys on here, about how they would feel about there GF arranging a girls holiday, without any kinda discussion about it at all

 

[LiveFreeX]

Hit a nerve there did I. You people are pathetic.

 

[LiveFreeX]

So lets be honest here Tic Tac/Fatal Jay/Jaylan

Who runs barter town?

I had my post deleted due to personal insults but yours aren't so I guess that makes you the mole. Here to quash another thread out of some personal butt hurt?

 

[Tictac]

So lets be honest here Tic Tac/Fatal Jay/Jaylan

Who runs barter town?

I had my post deleted due to personal insults but yours aren't so I guess that makes you the mole.

Pathetic.

 

[LiveFreeX]

Why do you show up on every thread I post on and then do your best to derail it from existence?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Hit a nerve there did I. You people are pathetic.

You can repost the main gist of your post without the direct personal attack. That's the part that got it deleted. Clearly against the rules.

 

[soulforge]

Update..

I decided to read some of her text messages last night..

There does not seem to be any sense of wrong doing or apology.

Her - You left some of your belongings here, need your adress so can send them back


Her - Why didn't you have the guts to end it to my face the next day, as i was going to end it with you

Her - Did you get home ok?

Her - don't bother then.. good luck with the future


Man i feel chit today.. i feel like spelling out to her exactly what she did wrong..

I wish i had kept my mouth shut, and never had said, i don't fancy staying out too late tonight

Look how much BS has come out of this.. she rang me this morning, i ignored the call

 

[Atom Smasher]

She calls your manhood into question in BOTH word and deed.

Is this someone who is worthy of you?

 

[Tictac]

Update..

I decided to read some of her text messages last night..

There does not seem to be any sense of wrong doing or apology.

Her - You left some of your belongings here, need your adress so can send them back


Her - Why didn't you have the guts to end it to my face the next day, as i was going to end it with you

Her - Did you get home ok?

Her - don't bother then.. good luck with the future


Man i feel chit today.. i feel like spelling out to her exactly what she did wrong..

I wish i had kept my mouth shut, and never had said, i don't fancy staying out too late tonight

Look how much BS has come out of this.. she rang me this morning, i ignored the call

Be done. Be gone.

Cut the cord and vanish. You are done explaining yourself to a drunk, disrespectful woman.

 

[Desdinova]

i feel like spelling out to her exactly what she did wrong..

What does this accomplish?

The woman is 46 years old. If she's treating men like this at her age, then she obviously hasn't learned anything from the other guys who ditched her ass. She won't learn anything from you either.

Women have a way of eroding their emotions to make them feel as if they did absolutely nothing wrong. They tell themselves over and over again that it was YOUR fault, and it doesn't take long for them to believe their own lie.

Dude, this woman treated you like sh1t. You owe her nothing. Spelling out what she did wrong will not fix the problems that happened in the relationship. If anything, it will only make them more apparent. Just let her vent to your silent phone, and she'll eventually run out of steam and leave you alone.

Get up, wipe the footprints off your back, and move on.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Block her number. You made the right decision.

 

[soulforge]

ANOTHER UPDATE

UPDATE!


She has sent me this text...

Her - Are we going to be adults and talk at some point.. please contact me

Is this her looking for closure, or her looking to try and see if we can fix things??

Keep in mind, few days ago she sent me a text agreeing with the break up, also she wanted my address so she can drop my clothes off for me

 

[ThrowAwayId]

She has shown, repeatedly and clearly, that she has no respect for you. Whatever she has in mind is only for her benefit. She's prob'ly looking for closure

 

[dustmuffin]

ANOTHER UPDATE

UPDATE!


She has sent me this text...

Her - Are we going to be adults and talk at some point.. please contact me

Is this her looking for closure, or her looking to try and see if we can fix things??

Keep in mind, few days ago she sent me a text agreeing with the break up, also she wanted my address so she can drop my clothes off for me

Stay silent don't give in! You can't fix her!