I Dumped My GF Today On Her Birthday

[lizardking82]

Thanks for the feedback I tell her a LOT that i'm not happy about her complaing. Her response is that all girls get fu*ked up by hormones.

You're partly right about me thinking I deserve this relationship. My thoughts are that I'm the best catch a woman can get. I suppose don't have the best lifestyle though because I work mostly nights & weekends.

Stop telling her, man. Start showing her you are unhappy. You cannot tell her you're unhappy and then continue like everything's alright. Take a stand. Show her you're unhappy. How? Go cold, stop talking to her for a couple of days. Right now, this chick probably thinks "yeah, yeah, that's right, he's unhappy, but he won't do a thing about it so I will keep up with this shajt". Trust me, this is exactly one of the things I did wrong in my relationship and it will end up in a point where you will one day get so pissed off of all of her **** and will explode in her face and then she will leave you, blaming you and telling you **** like "you're angry, we are not right for each other". Brother, take a stand, it is the only thing that could get her on her feet again and could save your relationship.

 

[Milano]

Thanks for the feedback I tell her a LOT that i'm not happy about her complaing. Her response is that all girls get fu*ked up by hormones.

You're partly right about me thinking I deserve this relationship. My thoughts are that I'm the best catch a woman can get. I suppose don't have the best lifestyle though because I work mostly nights & weekends.

My single mom gf was like this, always an excuse. What is the outcome? YOUR PROBLEM every time, thats the sad part. If she has problems they become your problems, so your gut feeling is always right and it will only grow with this one.

If I was a virgin way up in my twenties and it caused me all kinds of mental problems, should I tell my girlfriend and blame that unfortunate event for my mood swings etc? Probably not very smart lol, but girls have higher value cause of their holes so they dont have to learn how to stop crying like little girls because we men are so desperate for them anyway so they get away with it. In here we try to be red pill, if she is damaged she will damage you. It hurts cause you love her but its a great life lesson learned the hard way like all of them you know

 

[Manofrefinedtastes]

I won't lie.. its hurting me that i had to dump her.. but..

I just cannot see anyway way back with her, especialy over that level of disrespect.

If i got back with her now, she would walk all over me.. i was burning with anger the way i was treated last night

It was more than disrespect; she and her girl friend had other **** for her to sample. The non too subtle plan to keep you from the club was them short shrifting you out of a relationship; they wanted for her to meet some new blokes, and your being along would interfere.

Her blowing up your phone was her trying to get validation, and she doesn't care for you anymore. She just wants a way to turn the narrative around so she can feel that she dumped you.

 

[skinnyguy]

Don't date women over 25. Problem solved.

 

[Initiatedindenial]

I'm reading this post for the first time and I'm pleased to see that the OP did not went with her. She was obviously making head wings to dump you later on, but when you pulled the trigger first her pride was burning. If you had taken her back she would have dumped you later on.

 

[mikey2012]

nice