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    girlfriend of 4 months is starting to flake, where to go now?

    So I met this chick about 4 months ago, and we hit it off real well. Things have been going great. The sex is great, communication, everything. Havent had a problem in the world. Then she starts acting weird one day and comes over to my house and we have "the talk". She says in the same...
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    deleting the number, good call or no?

    I talked to this chick about 4 months ago, and she flaked on me 1 hour before our first date. I didnt really care much as I have a lot going on in my life and girls arent my first priority. Anyway, I deleted her number to make space on my sim card, and in the meantime Ive been hitting the gym...
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    why do girls with boyfriends still give out their numbers?

    saturday night I met a girl at the club. serious IOI's all night, she grabbed me to dance. I split from the dancefloor at the height of the fun. Lots of kino, number close at closing time. I gave her my number through a text at the same time. She texts me today, and we talk a bit. I tell...
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    sarging gay bars for straight women

    earlier this week I met a PUA at a bar, and we started talking mystery and style. this guy is a genius. he told me he has done very well at gay bars. what are your thoughs on sarging gay bars? the way i see it is, instant disqualifier. Guy in a gay bar = probably gay = instant...
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    Any tips for DHV (demonstrating higher value) during approach/pickup

    I think i have figured out where my game lacks. I have no problem with the approach. I no longer get any anxiety, and will walk up to a pack of HB9.9's if I want to. (10's dont exist). Anyway, I dont have a problem number closing. I have a problem with them picking up the phone after I call...
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    I AMOG'd a guy at a party, funny stuff

    Im hanging out at this party last night, and this chick was there that I met at the last party. Shes like an 8 but has a 10 body. She gave me some IOI's and we talked a couple of times, and I discovered she was recently single. Last party she was there with a pretty boy type, that was a...
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    going to a party tonight, ONS from a month ago will be there...

    I met this girl through some friends (same friends who are having the party tonight) about a month ago. We went out to dinner and had drinks, had a great time, and ended up going back to her place for some dessert ;). Things seemed to be going great. I left about 5am, and by 9am already had a...
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    why cant i ever be the other guy?

    in the past year i have lost so many girls to other guys. if you check out this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139867 i finally found out what happened. A friend of mine (without my knowledge), was talking to her best friend on yahoo earlier and found out that she met...
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    chicks with kids, inviting them along for a date

    It seems they all have kids these days, and finding a sitter can sometimes be a problem. How kosher is it to invite the kid along for a dinner date? Kids are the #1 important thing in a womans life. I think it would be a great gesture toward a woman that you could see a potential LTR with...
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    when a girl comes up to the bar and asks for a drink

    So im up at the club tonight and I see this chick that i met last year at the same place. She works for a promotion company, and gives out free stuff when you buy one of the drinks shes advertising. She remembered me from last time, and we talked for a minute or so, then parted ways. During...
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    date goes from horrible to bed in 5 hours, then???

    Last saturday a friend of mine was having a kegger at his place. I showed up and his wife wanted to introduce me to one of her single friends. Well she didnt want to come (what my friends wife told me, ended up she had to cover a shift at work and didnt get off till 2am). I didnt really care...
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    i seem to have hit a slump

    this has been the strangest 6 months of my life. i have met some really decent women, but it seems like every one ultimately falls apart the same way. Meet girl, things go great, she shows interest, talk a few times, convo goes great, set up date, get call 1 hour before date "sorry something...
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    Girlfriend weirds out after she goes with me to a party??

    A little over 2 weeks ago I met a girl that is absolutely awesome. I am white and she is Asian, but we hit it off and things have been really good. We met through mutual friends as she told my friend that she likes tall white guys, and my friend said "i know the guy you need to meet". We met...
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    how to deal with potential lesbian??

    Last week i was out with some of my guy friends eating at a restaurant and our waitress was smoking hot. So i was messing with her bad, and long story short, after a lot of C&F, and fukking with her pretty hard I got her number. After some short convo, I find out we have a mutual friend she...
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    learned a females point of view on jealousy. interesting.

    My best friend of 22 years got married last year and his wife and I have become pretty good friends. So i was talking to her one day about this chick ive been talking to who has been on and off with her boyfriend and we were talking about jealousy. She said something that was interesting none...
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    Picking up rebound chicks

    Im talking to 2 chicks 1 who i have known for about 4 years, and there has been some attraction/tension between us the whole time, we have just been involved with other people the whole time, and this chick i just met last week and we went out last friday on our first date. Well, the first girl...
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    shlt test?

    met this chick last weekend at a party. seemed real cool, number closed in a few minutes, then left the party a few minutes later. I called her 2 days later and we talked for like 10 mins, and i told her i would get ahold of her sometime soon and we could hang out. She seemed really in to me...
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    an observation ive made here recently

    Lately, ive been striking up conversation with about anyone i come in contact with. #1 to hone my conversation skills and #2 to hone my C&F, and #3 to make it way easier to walk up to an HB and do my thing. So lately ive noticed something weird. I meet a lot of 3-6/10 women that are married...
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    tip of the day, LJBF the next HB you meet

    Recently i met a chick at the gym. I decided to do something out of the ordinary just to see what would happen, for my own knowledge. I got her number, we talked a few times, and I LJBF'd her. Now when we talk I say things like "your just my buddy, like one of the guys". stuff like that...
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    getting a card with your name and number on it, good idea or no?

    ive been in a few situations lately where getting the girls number after the approach was a bad call. one was friday night where i approched our waitress (away from the table i didnt want any of my friends to hate on me while i was doing my business), but she was in the presence of her fellow...
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