I met this girl through some friends (same friends who are having the party tonight) about a month ago. We went out to dinner and had drinks, had a great time, and ended up going back to her place for some dessert 
. Things seemed to be going great. I left about 5am, and by 9am already had a text from her saying good morning. I knew this girl had a high IL in me at this point. The next day she seemed really distant and she didnt respond to a text I sent her while I was at work so I just stopped talking to her. About 2 weeks later I sent her a random text and she responded which we started a convo and she ended up telling me she was seeing someone the same time we hooked up, but things ended up working out with him. Ok no biggie, I tell her to hit me up when she got rid of him. I havent talked to her in about 3 weeks now.
So fast forward to yesterday I talked to my friend that is having the party tonight. She is supposed to be there, but me and my friend came to the consensus that the story about the other guy is most likely made up, because she has made no reference to this new guy to her best friend (my friends wife) or anything. She told her friend that she really liked me and had a great time etc etc, but personally I think she got scared. Possibly that I am too "ideal", possibly that she liked me too fast, possibly that we got physical too fast. I dont know. Anyway she is going to be at this party tonight. How should I act around her? What if she does show up with a guy? I would like to see her again, she was hella cool, we had a lot in common, shes a freak in the sack and I give her a solid HB9+ status.
Thanks guys.
. Things seemed to be going great. I left about 5am, and by 9am already had a text from her saying good morning. I knew this girl had a high IL in me at this point. The next day she seemed really distant and she didnt respond to a text I sent her while I was at work so I just stopped talking to her. About 2 weeks later I sent her a random text and she responded which we started a convo and she ended up telling me she was seeing someone the same time we hooked up, but things ended up working out with him. Ok no biggie, I tell her to hit me up when she got rid of him. I havent talked to her in about 3 weeks now.So fast forward to yesterday I talked to my friend that is having the party tonight. She is supposed to be there, but me and my friend came to the consensus that the story about the other guy is most likely made up, because she has made no reference to this new guy to her best friend (my friends wife) or anything. She told her friend that she really liked me and had a great time etc etc, but personally I think she got scared. Possibly that I am too "ideal", possibly that she liked me too fast, possibly that we got physical too fast. I dont know. Anyway she is going to be at this party tonight. How should I act around her? What if she does show up with a guy? I would like to see her again, she was hella cool, we had a lot in common, shes a freak in the sack and I give her a solid HB9+ status.
Thanks guys.
