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Message Boy, don't seek validation of the negative which seems to be the theme of your original post. Instead, as others have written, seek to develop you and deal with the inner conflicts and beliefs. All of that confusion and self doubt is leaking out as you interact with people, especially...

Agreed. The faint possibility that an AFC will get the chance. Everyone Remember the premise of the whole article is about the author's transformation when he became confident and assertive. Remaining the pushover and constant sponge of daily problems is where problems come into affect...

http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/04/14/mr.nice.guy.backlash/index.html?hpt=C2 I thought this was interesting to share with the crew. I haven't posted in a mighty long time, but wanted to contribute a little something to remind some of us we don't need to be too nice. Be nice when she has...

I have been married almost 11 years, this March, and I have known my wife for 20 years. For me I found the right one the first time. If I were to find myself all of a sudden single, I would not even consider the possibility of marriage again. Why, my standards are too high and the effort...

I have dumbells at home and after a year, I now use gloves.

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Also, a couple of additional notes on this. You only need 30 minutes or so set aside for this on a daily basis. It doesn't matter when, just as long as it is good for you. And you don't necessarily need music. For me I just turn everything off, close my eyes and try to focus on one thing...

Quite a bit of good advice on meditation. I have been a practioner on and off for about 15 years, and I can personally attest to its benefits. However, it will take some time to quiet the mind down as you will quickly realize that you have quite a few thoughts zipping along in your brain. Also...

I am married, so I am not out here picking up women. However, my relationship with my wife and my ability to strike up conversations with random women have improved greatly. A couple of things here about the change. For me it was gradual once the light came on, so to speak. Everyone that says...

JoeKerr31 is so right. I am 36 and things started turning around at mid/late 20's and have picked up steadily in my 30s. I would say that you have to keep focused on developing yourself (education, health, wealth, career, spiritually, etc.), and you hit your 30's you will begin to see the...

I would stay above the waist if you are just meeting. Let her go below the waist if she wants, not you! A quick touch on the back of the arm, nothing more than 1 second. If she doesn't reciprocate then discontinue.

I agree with some of the postings here. stop focusing on sex for the time being. Focus on establishing rapport and conversation. You appear to get the signals, but you aren't or can't follow up. I would suggest starting here first in order build up the interest level, and basically give you...

Not suprising. More intelligent people will be more concerned of the negative outcome of their actions. Also, these same people are looking more long term than the average joe. No offense intended. However, this doesn't mean that a generally healthy and intelligent person does not desire sex...

Yes, he has. However, don't take your confidence to the extreme to arrogance. This can happen in the beginning as you emerge and eyes open.

From what I have seen mid to late 20's for women. Men, I hear 30's and 40's. I am mid 30's and still get carded from time to time. So, I guess I should start looking decent around 40. Go figure.

This was a funny post. Anyway, have a good time your wingman is, and he is getting laid in the process. What a concept. Don't let his actions stop you from enjoying yourself.

Using women as motivating factor in your life is pure folly in my opinion. I have been there, and the focus is on them and not you. Your goals, your desires, your dreams, your ideas, and your whatever should be your motivation. Are you living for women? I will let you in on...

I agree with some that the original poster has a rather lofty view of himself relative to others. Basically, his writings hint that he believes that he is superior to others. I have a reasonably high IQ, and have pursuits and interests that vary and would not be the norm for the clubbing...

Sounds like bad planning. Try to make sure things start off well. If they continue to be lax in the timing then neither of you appears really invested in making this thing work. If this pattern continues then I would move on.

You have options, use them. If this was the last time she would see you then she would have made an effort, tired or not. Don't sit around waiting on her either.