Last Thursday after finals week, I reunited with this girl I like whom I haven't seen since last Fall. We're both busy with work and school so it makes it hard to have time off just to hang out, or have coffee across campus. She was delighted to see me again, and I told her we should hang out again after not seeing each other in a while. At this point in her life, she isn't seeing someone, but has a lot of guy friends. Anyway, I suggested we check out the scene at this one place downtown. But she said she had plans to go to the Grand Canyon sometime around Wednesday (June 20th) before summer session starts but would like to see me before she goes anyway. She replied asking me when and where we should meet in which case I told her (June 18) Monday afternoon.
Just yesterday (Sat), I contacted her by email to confirm our plans for Monday. Sadly, I checked my mail just now and found out she couldn't make it after all because she was too tired from the previous semester and that she felt she was being smothered by all sorts of her friends wanting to hang out with her also. Her email response detailed that since everyone isn't giving her time alone that she had to start drawing the line somewhere. Unfortunately, she started with me. She was apologetic and suggested a postponement of our plans but didn't specify when. She closed by saying "she hoped to meet me again sometime."
I'm kinda disappointed but at the same time, I understand. I've learned from DJ that it's good to have other girls to pursue on the side while you're pursuing a certain "main" girl from keeping you from being needy and/or desparate. Fortunately, I have a couple average girls (even though they're not my type) I can "hang out" with during the summer and a dancer/entertainer whom I've met since last Winter who stretches like you won't believe!
Though, I would still like to "hang out" with this main girl I like. Should I call her during the summer and ask if we could just meet for coffee across campus? Or move on?
Just yesterday (Sat), I contacted her by email to confirm our plans for Monday. Sadly, I checked my mail just now and found out she couldn't make it after all because she was too tired from the previous semester and that she felt she was being smothered by all sorts of her friends wanting to hang out with her also. Her email response detailed that since everyone isn't giving her time alone that she had to start drawing the line somewhere. Unfortunately, she started with me. She was apologetic and suggested a postponement of our plans but didn't specify when. She closed by saying "she hoped to meet me again sometime."
I'm kinda disappointed but at the same time, I understand. I've learned from DJ that it's good to have other girls to pursue on the side while you're pursuing a certain "main" girl from keeping you from being needy and/or desparate. Fortunately, I have a couple average girls (even though they're not my type) I can "hang out" with during the summer and a dancer/entertainer whom I've met since last Winter who stretches like you won't believe!
Though, I would still like to "hang out" with this main girl I like. Should I call her during the summer and ask if we could just meet for coffee across campus? Or move on?