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    Books on how to have the best sex

    There was a thread on this before but I can't find it to save my life. So yes, I used the search function... Everyone was saying that there were one or two particularly exceptional books on how to have great sex and give your girl amazing orgasms blah blah blah If someone could tell me...
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    asians, clubbing, and lesbian surprises. Advice please?

    So a little backstory: My buddy (we'll call him Joe) is one of my friends from school. I went out with him a big group to a club and he brought along these two very cute girls. We'll call them Alexandra and Christine So I was flirting with both of them a bit. Alexandra actually seemed very...
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    When to eject in bars/clubs?

    Let's say you open a girl at a bar or club. She's showing mild interest. She's not blowing you out or anything, but for some reason you're just not "clicking". You're putting effort into the conversation, but she kind of isn't. At what point do you call it quits? Do you just keep going and...
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    Heavy flirting, and then nothing. What happened?

    There was this cute girl (we'll call her Jen) who i saw at a party a few weeks ago. She approached me and asked me some random questions and kept touching my arms/shoulders/body in a pretty flirty manner. I was kind of ignoring her at first for some reason, probably because I was a little buzzed...
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    Over it. How to deal with this?

    I'll make this as short as possible. Basically, I've been dating this girl since December (she's not my girlfriend although she's been a potential prospect). She goes to university with me. I would say she is the least available girl I have ever met. What I mean by that is, I ALWAYS have to...
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    If a GIRL is spinning plates...

    If a girl you have been dating is spinning plates and she asks to be in a relationship with you: do you accept? For the sake of the argument, let's say that she has good qualities for an LTR: kind, giving, enthusiastic, interesting, smart, etc. blah blah blah On one hand, for her to be in...
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    Suddenly ignored...

    Hey guys, been dating this cute French chick. We'll call her Frenchie Basically, we've been on about 4 or 5 dates. Had sex on the 3rd date. Everything's going pretty well. I like her, she likes me. Blah blah blah. I went over to Frenchie's desk on Thursday to ask her to hang out at some point...
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    Good dates that do not necessarily involve drinking?

    There was a thread here about how going out to get a drink or two is a good idea for the first couple dates. The reasons why are pretty obvious. When drinking, you are in an exciting social setting (usually), you are both a little bit more relaxed, and drinking is almost always fun. Here is...
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    !0 for 15!??!!?!?!?

    COME ONNNNNNN!!!!! Third night out at the club approaching various girls NO LUCK AT ALL!? On average I've tried to approach about 7 girls per night. Not too over the top but at the same time not too conservative. GOD DAMN this is hard. I mean, I'm not a bad looking guy but...
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    ex girlfriend dating another guy.

    I know there's nothing I can do about it obviously. But it still sucks. This isn't a thread on how I can "get her back" or how i can "piss her off" etc. etc. Just kind of a way for me to vent my frustration. It's kind of embarassing because everyone in my class joked about how she was going to...
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    Field Report and advice?

    Went on a date with a girl. Got some food at a to-go place, went for a short walk, and then to my friend's party. All in all a decent night. She messaged me on facebook saying "we should totally hang out and go to the beach or something this week!" I replied on facebook and said "That's funny...
  12. J

    Having trouble approaching women

    So I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I SUCK at cold approaching. In fact, I haven't even gotten to the approaching part. This includes any sort of interaction: at clubs, bars, on the bus, walking down the street, ANYTHING. Any time I am introduced to a girl through a group of friends...
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    Having to see your ex in school FOR HOURS AT A TIME

    My ex and I go to the same school together. We were dating for 2 and a half years and she broke up with me. Basically, after 2.5 years, she decided that her interest level dropped. She didn't really "miss me" that much over spring break when we both went to our respective home towns and didn't...
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    Should I ask "Why?"

    My girlfriend broke up with me. When it first happened it really took me by surprise. She basically give me a short speech about how how gradually her interests have dropped, and over spring break she "didn't really miss me that much" and thought that "it was kind of nice to be away from...
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    Losing interest or just a phase?

    So here's the story guys. I have a girlfriend. We've been dating for 1 year, 7 months. She is marriage material. Nice, respectful, honest, straight-forward, LOGICAL (very rare in women), VERY intelligent, and self-respecting. She of course has her flaws like being a little bit of a know-it-all...
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    I screwed up.

    I hooked up with a girl last week. Hung out with her again today. Unfortunately I'm going to college in 4 days. Her only free day where our schedules coordinated was tonight. Basically I asked her to come over and hang out with a few friends with no real plan. We ended up doing nothing all...
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    shes playing games

    Hooked up with a girl several weeks ago. Didn't really pursue it any further. I only considered her a 6/10 and plus she's in my visual communications class, which I spend 3 hours in. I didn't want to pursue anything with her in fear of it being really really awkward when things eventually didnt...
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    moo

    deleted. i was being an idiot.
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    Me and my good friend are into the same girl

    Okay, I'm having a bit of a problem. My buddy, we'll call him Jeff, is into a girl, who we'll call Sarah. (these are not real names of course). So me and jeff are really good friends. One day, after breaking up with my LTR 10-month EX-girlfriend, I was talking about this girl, Sarah who...
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    FR: from sky high interest to low in a matter of hours

    So I go to the movies with this girl. Now, I have a question regarding this: How do you get kino in during a movie theatre? I attempted to get some kino in, like hand holding, but it just seemed so damn forced. Is hand holding corny during a movie? Should I put my arm around her? etc. I...
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