So I go to the movies with this girl.
Now, I have a question regarding this: How do you get kino in during a movie theatre? I attempted to get some kino in, like hand holding, but it just seemed so damn forced. Is hand holding corny during a movie? Should I put my arm around her? etc.
I really didn't do much kino in the movie theatre. But I really got along with her well. Good C+F, and stuff like that. My main flaw was failure to use more kino. Other than that, good stuff.
So we went down to her basement of her house after the movie (which has a TV and is fully furnished, etc). Instead of sitting next to me on the couch while watching TV, she sits in a chair while im on the couch. Her not sitting near me is an obvious sign of low interest. I think a lot of this has to do with her not being allowed to even have boys in the basement, plus her brother wasn't too far away. (i know this because she told me)
So she drives me back to the train station. Finally I get a chance to sit down next to her while waiting for the train to arrive, and she STILL keeps her distance. She seems a little reluctant with my kino. We talked about sex. Which is good.
She mentioned her ex twice (although it did apply to the conversation). OBVIOUS sign of low interest. Which is bad.
I think the reason I was timid about the kino is because she wasn't so receptive to it.
NOW HERE IS THE BIGGEST PART:
So I IM her after the date. she tells me she's at her girlfriend's house.
You know, typical gay AIM conversation. Then she says "whatever im over you." I don't know if that was a joke or not. Because I don't see ANY girl being bold enough to say that, especially if she had such high interest. I'm thinking about jsut forgetting about her. It's weird how a girl can go from ASKING YOU TO HANG OUT AND BEING ALL EXCITED. And then, nothing.
2 questions:
1. Where do I go from here with this girl? After her saying "whatever im over you" (i still dont know if it was a joke or not) i guess its best to next her, cuz it seems like she did it to me.
2. Is there a better way to initiate kino? What exactly do you do?
Now, I have a question regarding this: How do you get kino in during a movie theatre? I attempted to get some kino in, like hand holding, but it just seemed so damn forced. Is hand holding corny during a movie? Should I put my arm around her? etc.
I really didn't do much kino in the movie theatre. But I really got along with her well. Good C+F, and stuff like that. My main flaw was failure to use more kino. Other than that, good stuff.
So we went down to her basement of her house after the movie (which has a TV and is fully furnished, etc). Instead of sitting next to me on the couch while watching TV, she sits in a chair while im on the couch. Her not sitting near me is an obvious sign of low interest. I think a lot of this has to do with her not being allowed to even have boys in the basement, plus her brother wasn't too far away. (i know this because she told me)
So she drives me back to the train station. Finally I get a chance to sit down next to her while waiting for the train to arrive, and she STILL keeps her distance. She seems a little reluctant with my kino. We talked about sex. Which is good.
She mentioned her ex twice (although it did apply to the conversation). OBVIOUS sign of low interest. Which is bad.
I think the reason I was timid about the kino is because she wasn't so receptive to it.
NOW HERE IS THE BIGGEST PART:
So I IM her after the date. she tells me she's at her girlfriend's house.
You know, typical gay AIM conversation. Then she says "whatever im over you." I don't know if that was a joke or not. Because I don't see ANY girl being bold enough to say that, especially if she had such high interest. I'm thinking about jsut forgetting about her. It's weird how a girl can go from ASKING YOU TO HANG OUT AND BEING ALL EXCITED. And then, nothing.
2 questions:
1. Where do I go from here with this girl? After her saying "whatever im over you" (i still dont know if it was a joke or not) i guess its best to next her, cuz it seems like she did it to me.
2. Is there a better way to initiate kino? What exactly do you do?