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Okay, I'm going to be a little bit of an ass here but trust me it's in love. Error#1 - Expecting a call - you shouldn't even think about this, it's over, she's gone, who cares about her. Error#2 - Dating way too early. I waited two months and about a month after dating I found my current...

Time flies, it's been almost a year now, just about a month away. Do I still think about my ex? Yes at times, more and more recently for some odd reason. Do I miss her as my significant other? Not at all, do I miss her as a friend, yeah to be honest. She was pretty cool and I had a lot of fun...

You don't, no contact means no contact, trust me, I was in your situation months ago, lost the girl who I thought was the girl of my dreams, now almost seven months later, I'm in a three month long relationship with a girl I am proud to say I love, and truly loves me back. Stay away from your...

First off I would like to say I'm extremely proud and happy to see the progress you have made, funny how at one point we all thought this was the end of our happiness. Your story is an inspiration to the new members of sosuave and will hopefully allow them to see not only your progression, but...

This is something I've been dying to work on. Glad someone had some examples to help newbies like me!

This is something that I've definitely put into practice, more confident, now I gotta work on not developing oneitis.

I'll agree that this is definitely my problem. But how do I go about changing this, what do you mean by being content? Really want to hear more, I appreciate any and all feedback! -Jared

Wish I would have read this earlier lol

Sounds like something I'll have to put some thought into. I appreciate all of the feedback, felt like I didn't know what was the error, and I agree with the scarcity mindset thing, I believe that's my problem, even though deep down I know there are literally billions of girls out there.

Couldn't agree more. We'll see what happens, either way I'm not bothered by it anymore, her loss.

Something I notice about myself is when I find a girl I connect with somewhat, I almost immediately fall oneitis. I know this is a problem and I want to fix it, are there any tips for me to fix my problem? Has anyone else had this issue? -Jared

I gotta admit I'm in the same situation as the poster here. I'm more up front, I block off contact without thinking twice. But I still fall for that oneitis bull**** after like a date or two with a girl I think is relatively good looking. It's annoying, any tips for this? Message me or reply...

Don't step out in hopes of her returning. In all honesty this is completely counter-productive as you are focusing on her. Rather laugh at her misfortune and get her out of your life, without thinking twice. This means blocking her number/email/Facebook/friends hell, even her family. She's your...

Texting too much, and falling into oneitis way too quickly. Time to analyze and learn, golden information here!

I already cut it off. She's way too much drama, I'm not about to deal with the same **** I did with my ex who actually got me on sosuave. (Am thankful for that part.) I'm a little hurt she pulled this but I told her it was better she not speak to me or attempt to contact me again.

Good advice, and I am thankful that she didn't keep flirting with me and leading me down the rabbit hole lol. I'm now analyzing what could have went wrong. But she agreed to a movie date at my house this Friday now. I ignored her messages and she kept sending one after another about how sorry...

NCing this other girl. Turned out to be a flake. Not that worried though, good to see I still have some sort of game lol. -Jared

So I need some advice. I was with this girl last night and we ended up getting intimate (No Sex). Then today she sends me this. "Hey I had a good time last night but idk I'm not the most stable right now so I don't want to like lead you on or anything". So what do I do.

Met a new girl, had a good time with her the other night. Safe to say the ex means nothing to me now. Keep up with the NC guys. Healing takes time but it comes. Don't give in, stay strong. -Jared

I never had closure with my ex, but you just have to tell yourself, it's over, she's gone, I'm alive, I survived. Life sucks sometimes, but if it was always perfect why would we cherish those good moments. Stick to NC and who knows, you might meet the REAL love of your life! -Jared