Hey guys I'm joining the group. I was in a 7 1/2 year relationship until I got dumped and friend-zoned Tuesday June 23rd. I did not react in a needy way. I did not beg or blow up her phone. However, I did keep in touch with her - we sent each a few text messages - until Sunday June 28. That Sunday I called her and told her I was not interested in being her friend, and therefore, I did not want to keep in touch unless she changed her mind.
We did not talk or contact each other until Wednesday July 8. She called me that night but I ignored her call. However, I caved in the following day and I called her. I even tried to set up a date with her. I think back and I realize how pho-king weak that was. Since July 9, she has text me several times, but I have been strong and not replied to any of her messages.
Luckily, today, I found this fantastic challenge. I know I was not doing the best I could do, but I could do better by cutting off contact COMPLETELY. So, like most of you fellow brethren, I will join you and we will get through this.
No contact officially started July 9 for me, however, for the sake of this challenge, I will consider today the first day.
We did not talk or contact each other until Wednesday July 8. She called me that night but I ignored her call. However, I caved in the following day and I called her. I even tried to set up a date with her. I think back and I realize how pho-king weak that was. Since July 9, she has text me several times, but I have been strong and not replied to any of her messages.
Luckily, today, I found this fantastic challenge. I know I was not doing the best I could do, but I could do better by cutting off contact COMPLETELY. So, like most of you fellow brethren, I will join you and we will get through this.
No contact officially started July 9 for me, however, for the sake of this challenge, I will consider today the first day.