"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yuppie Dallas Woman Has Major Temper Tantrum on American Airlines Flight Before Take Off; Causes Scene and Delays Everyone's Flight

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She lives in a $1.6 million home in one of the better neighborhoods in Dallas (city itself, not suburbs). She is likely career focused as she is an executive at a marketing agency.

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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English is not my first language; Wtf is a Yuppie?

Was on earth was she on about? Was she high?

She´s no gf/wife material. Hit it and quit it.
 
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Yuppie stands for Young Urban Professional. The term originates from the 1980s in the United States.

One of her relatives stealing her AirPods is supposedly what set her off.
 

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Mental health is a real issue nowadays, and it ain't just chicks.

We see drug-induced psychosis all the time, like all the time.

We pull tox reports on all ED admits and I'd say 70% of the population tests multiple positives.

Meth is everywhere, and its users you'd often never suspect.
 

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My thoughts on this:
1. I'm of two minds on her being exposed like this ... On one hand, one has no privacy anymore, 'influencers' aka morons with a camera are everywhere now. On the other hand, this is a lesson, and incentive to always be a responsible citizen, otherwise this sort of thing can happen to you. :rolleyes:
2. She's dressed sexually provocative (tight, ripped jeans, midriff showing) and is hot ... but IMO her issues would make 'seducing' her a liability, not an accomplishment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think there will be a wave of Wall-hitting women that have "had it all" but they have come to the conclusion that they still feel terrible that they have not been able to tie down a high-status man, and now even the mid-status men are totally uninterested. This chick still thinks she has the body of her much younger self, which is why she is showing off her midriff - and she can tell that instead of like when she was younger when men would fixate their eyes on her bare midriff, men are now active averting their eyes.
 

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I think there will be a wave of Wall-hitting women that have "had it all" but they have come to the conclusion that they still feel terrible that they have not been able to tie down a high-status man, and now even the mid-status men are totally uninterested. This chick still thinks she has the body of her much younger self, which is why she is showing off her midriff - and she can tell that instead of like when she was younger when men would fixate their eyes on her bare midriff, men are now active averting their eyes.
Her midriff is mediocre at best. If she had a good midriff like many Twin Peaks Girls or strippers, it would be a different situation.

She has worked in marketing and reached the executive level for small organizations. That would be the "had it all" type. She is 38 and appears to be unmarried and childless.
 

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Also she’s a millennial, not a gen-xer, which explains a lot.
 

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I’m not sure that she qualifies as a “yuppie” at 38. Having said that, I don’t know what to think of that video. It looks like she had a real mental breakdown (or forgot to take her meds) as opposed to having a Karen moment. But there’s no doubt that she got the kids’ glove treatment because she’s a woman and relatively good looking. A man acting that way would have been arrested on the spot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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2. She's dressed sexually provocative (tight, ripped jeans, midriff showing) and is hot ... but IMO her issues would make 'seducing' her a liability, not an accomplishment.
I beg to differ...she's pushing 40 not that hot.
 

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How did she manage to get a solid house?
 

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Someone on twitter made a lego replica of these scene.. it was amazing. It had to be AI generated..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think yupppie was originally a derogatory 80s term for certain white collar professionals. It was a dig against (real or perceived) snobbery.

(Intentional misspell)
She is a white collar worker and her house is valued at over $1 million. The label 'yuppie' is applicable here. She's also late 30s and childless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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