"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yuppie Dallas Woman Has Major Temper Tantrum on American Airlines Flight Before Take Off; Causes Scene and Delays Everyone's Flight

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She lives in a $1.6 million home in one of the better neighborhoods in Dallas (city itself, not suburbs). She is likely career focused as she is an executive at a marketing agency.

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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English is not my first language; Wtf is a Yuppie?

Was on earth was she on about? Was she high?

She´s no gf/wife material. Hit it and quit it.
 
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Yuppie stands for Young Urban Professional. The term originates from the 1980s in the United States.

One of her relatives stealing her AirPods is supposedly what set her off.
 

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Mental health is a real issue nowadays, and it ain't just chicks.

We see drug-induced psychosis all the time, like all the time.

We pull tox reports on all ED admits and I'd say 70% of the population tests multiple positives.

Meth is everywhere, and its users you'd often never suspect.
 

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My thoughts on this:
1. I'm of two minds on her being exposed like this ... On one hand, one has no privacy anymore, 'influencers' aka morons with a camera are everywhere now. On the other hand, this is a lesson, and incentive to always be a responsible citizen, otherwise this sort of thing can happen to you. :rolleyes:
2. She's dressed sexually provocative (tight, ripped jeans, midriff showing) and is hot ... but IMO her issues would make 'seducing' her a liability, not an accomplishment.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think there will be a wave of Wall-hitting women that have "had it all" but they have come to the conclusion that they still feel terrible that they have not been able to tie down a high-status man, and now even the mid-status men are totally uninterested. This chick still thinks she has the body of her much younger self, which is why she is showing off her midriff - and she can tell that instead of like when she was younger when men would fixate their eyes on her bare midriff, men are now active averting their eyes.
 

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I think there will be a wave of Wall-hitting women that have "had it all" but they have come to the conclusion that they still feel terrible that they have not been able to tie down a high-status man, and now even the mid-status men are totally uninterested. This chick still thinks she has the body of her much younger self, which is why she is showing off her midriff - and she can tell that instead of like when she was younger when men would fixate their eyes on her bare midriff, men are now active averting their eyes.
Her midriff is mediocre at best. If she had a good midriff like many Twin Peaks Girls or strippers, it would be a different situation.

She has worked in marketing and reached the executive level for small organizations. That would be the "had it all" type. She is 38 and appears to be unmarried and childless.
 

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Also she’s a millennial, not a gen-xer, which explains a lot.
 

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I’m not sure that she qualifies as a “yuppie” at 38. Having said that, I don’t know what to think of that video. It looks like she had a real mental breakdown (or forgot to take her meds) as opposed to having a Karen moment. But there’s no doubt that she got the kids’ glove treatment because she’s a woman and relatively good looking. A man acting that way would have been arrested on the spot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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2. She's dressed sexually provocative (tight, ripped jeans, midriff showing) and is hot ... but IMO her issues would make 'seducing' her a liability, not an accomplishment.
I beg to differ...she's pushing 40 not that hot.
 

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How did she manage to get a solid house?
 

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Someone on twitter made a lego replica of these scene.. it was amazing. It had to be AI generated..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think yupppie was originally a derogatory 80s term for certain white collar professionals. It was a dig against (real or perceived) snobbery.

(Intentional misspell)
She is a white collar worker and her house is valued at over $1 million. The label 'yuppie' is applicable here. She's also late 30s and childless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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