Ringleader41
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A lot of girls say this about me. Pretty much all of the girls in my area place black guys at the lowest tier. What do I do?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You're cute for a black guy
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Ringleader41
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I can't, I'm stuck here for four years unless I go to a ghetto college
You could probably get sex easily.... That's a compliment in sexual terms, but doesn't bode well if you're looking for a relationship. Kind of like saying, they're not that into you, but still find you attractive enough to ****.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
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go elsewhere for ***** and/or dating. Do you live in a racist area? is it in the South or a general redneck area?
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Take it as a compliment man. I get girls telling me that I am cute for an Asian guy all the time. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't but it sure as hell beats being ugly.
Ringleader41
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6ft and built.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I doubt that it was meant as an insult.MrI0wn said:
I've noticed different people define words differently. I used to date a girl who didn't like being called "cute", she thought it meant ugly, but somehow endearing, like a bulldog might be. Some girls think "attractive" is a word people use for girls who aren't pretty. Some think "pretty" means plain and not beautiful.
Similarly, some girls think "dating" is more serious than "seeing each other" and vice versa. "Going out with" could mean anything too.
"Cute guy" is generally a compliment, and I've definitely heard it directed toward huge muscled alpha types.
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I prefer to keep the stiff upper lip, I'd have said "Cheers" and walked away.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can't say to a black girl: "you're cute for a black girl".
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
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