Ringleader41
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A lot of girls say this about me. Pretty much all of the girls in my area place black guys at the lowest tier. What do I do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You're cute for a black guy
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Ringleader41
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I can't, I'm stuck here for four years unless I go to a ghetto college
You could probably get sex easily.... That's a compliment in sexual terms, but doesn't bode well if you're looking for a relationship. Kind of like saying, they're not that into you, but still find you attractive enough to ****.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
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go elsewhere for ***** and/or dating. Do you live in a racist area? is it in the South or a general redneck area?
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Take it as a compliment man. I get girls telling me that I am cute for an Asian guy all the time. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't but it sure as hell beats being ugly.
Ringleader41
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6ft and built.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I doubt that it was meant as an insult.MrI0wn said:
I've noticed different people define words differently. I used to date a girl who didn't like being called "cute", she thought it meant ugly, but somehow endearing, like a bulldog might be. Some girls think "attractive" is a word people use for girls who aren't pretty. Some think "pretty" means plain and not beautiful.
Similarly, some girls think "dating" is more serious than "seeing each other" and vice versa. "Going out with" could mean anything too.
"Cute guy" is generally a compliment, and I've definitely heard it directed toward huge muscled alpha types.
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I prefer to keep the stiff upper lip, I'd have said "Cheers" and walked away.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I can't say to a black girl: "you're cute for a black girl".
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
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