Ringleader41
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A lot of girls say this about me. Pretty much all of the girls in my area place black guys at the lowest tier. What do I do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You're cute for a black guy
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Ringleader41
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I can't, I'm stuck here for four years unless I go to a ghetto college
You could probably get sex easily.... That's a compliment in sexual terms, but doesn't bode well if you're looking for a relationship. Kind of like saying, they're not that into you, but still find you attractive enough to ****.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.
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go elsewhere for ***** and/or dating. Do you live in a racist area? is it in the South or a general redneck area?
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Take it as a compliment man. I get girls telling me that I am cute for an Asian guy all the time. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't but it sure as hell beats being ugly.
Ringleader41
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6ft and built.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I doubt that it was meant as an insult.MrI0wn said:
I've noticed different people define words differently. I used to date a girl who didn't like being called "cute", she thought it meant ugly, but somehow endearing, like a bulldog might be. Some girls think "attractive" is a word people use for girls who aren't pretty. Some think "pretty" means plain and not beautiful.
Similarly, some girls think "dating" is more serious than "seeing each other" and vice versa. "Going out with" could mean anything too.
"Cute guy" is generally a compliment, and I've definitely heard it directed toward huge muscled alpha types.
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I prefer to keep the stiff upper lip, I'd have said "Cheers" and walked away.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.
I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I can't say to a black girl: "you're cute for a black girl".
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.
I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.
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