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Your Top 10 Red Flags to Look Out for

FlexpertHamilton

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@FlexpertHamilton what is personality/lifestyle mirroring?
They try to match your interests/attitude/hobbies/etc in an attempt to get you more interested in them, and ultimately, to manipulate you. One of my exes seemed to do this to an insane degree (right down to using the same brand of ghee to cook with, despite the fact that 95% of Americans don't even know what ghee is), though it's possible some of these were genuine coincedences. Either way, it's a big red flag particularly if you have esoteric/fringe beliefs/interests; women rarely think outside the cultural norms like that.

Corporate simps also personality mirror their bosses, though that's more about sycophantism than anything.
 

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Home/car are a cluttered mess
Good list. I’ve found though that most women (well above 50% anyway) are slobs with their cars even if they are impeccable with cleanliness and orderliness in the home.

To a woman, a car is something that gets them from point A to B. They will let the interior remain dirty and will have no inclination to get their many dents and scratches fixed.

In fact, I theorize that the reason that women are considered safer drivers is that they are far less inclined to report minor accidents to the insurance company.

So for me, a not-so-neat car gets a reluctant pass *IF* she is impeccably neat and clean in the home. A messy home is an absolute deal-breaker.
 
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Good list. I’ve found though that most women (well above 50% anyway) are slobs with their cars even if they are impeccable with cleanliness and orderliness in the home.

To a woman, a car is something that gets them from point A to B. They will let the interior remain dirty and will have no inclination to get their many dents and scratches fixed.

In fact, I theorize that the reason that women are considered safer drivers is that they are far less inclined to report minor accidents to the insurance company.

So for me, a not-so-neat car gets a reluctant pass *IF* she is impeccably neat and clean in the home. A messy home is an absolute deal-breaker.
It is also that "women are safer drivers" because women obey more blindly rules and regulations, and women are risk-averse by nature. Men are better drivers by far because we bend the rules to make traffic comfortable for everybody, at the same time you see us more getting into road-rage and fights.
 

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I haven't read the entire thread, but I want to throw this out there.

Two things I don't think were mentioned, but I've noticed:

1.) She's young but says that she is mature for her age, and acts more mature. More often than not it's because she has experienced past trauma.

2.) She talks in a child's voice. Again, this is a sign of past trauma.
 

soulforge

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01. Obsessed with social media
02. No father figure in her Life
03. Involvement in p0rn or modelling
04. Claims to have been graped
05. Identifies as a feminist
06. Has leftist liberal values
07. Rude/bicchy attitude
08. Suffers from depression or on meds
09. Claims all her exes are Aholes or toxic
10. Terrible communicator
 

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01. Obsessed with social media
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outside of maybe two or three of these… literally all my exes
 

soulforge

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outside of maybe two or three of these… literally all my exes
Begs the question... Why did you get yourself into a relationship with a girl with this many red flags
 
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01. Obsessed with social media
02. No father figure in her Life
03. Involvement in p0rn or modelling
04. Claims to have been graped
05. Identifies as a feminist
06. Has leftist liberal values
07. Rude/bicchy attitude
08. Suffers from depression or on meds
09. Claims all her exes are Aholes or toxic
10. Terrible communicator
Numbers 4, 7 and 10 make the average millenial girl.
 
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