“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your Top 10 Red Flags to Look Out for

Vanderdonck

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IMHO you find them aesthetically pleasing, interesting i.e. nice to look at or touch, you understand they are important etc. - but you do not love them. Love is also about your strong need to be around something or someone. If it will be taken from you or this need of being around kept unfulfilled, you will suffer emotional pain. I doubt you will suffer it if you will not take the weekend trip to zoo every few weeks. You are free to define it otherwise, but for me what you have described (even if it is a positive indication about you) is not love.

Tbh I have heard this reasoning many times - I am certainly not stating that you are the same or even similar to that person in this regard, but many years ago I had an aquaintance in my group of college friends that had a small apartment (no mortgage) bought by parents, that was close to her work. She loved attending cultural events, going to movies, taking trips around the world, attending parties with her close circle of friends. She also liked to tell everyone that she loves animals (and liked memes about them) but never had any dog or cat, arguing usually that her apartment is too small and that she does not have the time to take care of any animals. Her parents were successful professionals, definitely intelligent people, they had a dog. In spite of that, she did not have any need for animals around herself, and what's interesting, struggled at deeper side of emotional communication often. Objectively, she had all the means to take care of at least one animal, she has just never preferred to take any. Due to the deficiencies in EQ over the years she has struggled with her career which never really took off despite theoretically having excellent conditions for much more positive outcome.

In the same time I was renting a room and took a cat from shelter (before I went to college in my parents house were always some animals - cats or dogs) eventhough my rent for the room was about 40% of my first work salary at that time. I could not take fancy trips, and after some time (eventhough I love that cat, took it with me for short trips, played with her a lot) I had to leave the cat at my grandparents house which she loved when I visited them with her (I got a good contract opportunity far away from my previous city, and taking her with me would be very stressful for her and I would have to leave her alone for many hours, her life would change). Cats are little bit more about places they know than ppl they know when compared with dogs. So I left my little best friend at the best place I could at that time (grandparents house she loved) eventhough it was painful for me. I have visited her and my grandparents many times after that. Years later, I took another cat. Pain of not having and not being able to maintain living beings around me that I wanted at that time (including the girl I loved) motivated me to change my life, I got a good job eventually, understood myself better in the meantime - I also understood that I need a cat (again). My cat is probably not the smartest being in the world (but I prefer to defend his rebellious behaviour in front of my wife) but its sitting next to my shoulder right now when I write these words and I talk to this little guy about various things. Sure he does not understand anything I say except that I need him and I like to spend time with him, but I need this emotional connection with other species to feel happy and complete.

Regarding dirt or animals getting something dirty at home - tbh things getting dirty is perfectly normal. Everything wears out after some time - whether it is fresh paint on the walls, your clothes (btw. bye bye my old italian coat) or human flesh itself. In the "great scope of things" it does not matter even if it is annoying. If you objectively have means to take of any animal, you should do it. It changes life for better.
Yeah I guess we agree to disagree on these points. I personally don't think just because someone buys and owns a pet that it means they love animals or have even thought through what they are doing to the animal just so they can have the satisfaction of having it around. (Not accusing you of this - some people just don't realize it.) It can be a very selfish act and cruel to the animal if the human has not considered the demands of a pet, especially living in an urban area.

But I don't want to derail the thread and make it about pets so I'll leave it at that.
 

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Trying to sound really smart when she speaks
even though she's clearly an airhead
 

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2. Promiscuous behavior.

3. Bossiness. Very unattractive in a woman.

4. Princess syndrome or entitlement.

5. Damsel in distress...

7. Treats strangers rudely or badly...

8. Bad manners or bad language...

9. Messiness or slovenliness.
A "nice woman" will be able to hide them all under her mask.
You'll only know her when the kids arrive or you're married, and the mask comes off
 
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A "nice woman" will be able to hide them all under her mask.
You'll only know her when the kids arrive or you're married, and the mask comes off
You know @jhonny9546 a large part of your problem (besides your frequent and narcissistic constant spamming of this forum) is that you are so paranoid of all women that you think every female has ulterior motives, no female is trustworthy, all are faking who they are etc.

Let me ask you something? How's all that suspicion working out for you?

You spend so many hours clogging the forum with non-sense that I suppose you are not dating....and you may not even be working.

Perhaps a therapist would be helpful? I dunno.

But the paranoia you display here likely translates into a creepy real life vibe that you ooze everywhere you go. You despise your own sister and say ugly things about your mother.

That energy is terribly repulsive my dear. The good women feel that creepiness and get as far away as they can. They smell it coming a mile away and run.....I'm not joking.

Find a therapist, you are drowning in the paranoia of red pill rhetorhic taken to extreme. Leave the computer and go talk to some humans outside.

Seriously.
 

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The forum is 100% about learning about this, so everything translates into that energy.
I don't come to the forum to learn how to cook or figure out how to draw a certain face better.

So it's normal for the forum to highlight our "negative qualities."
We're simply trying to learn things.

Sorry you missed the point.
 

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1.) Putting political matters front and center.

2.) Giving off the impression that you should or shouldn't do something for her express approval.

3.) Buzz cut for any other reason than medical reasons.

4.) More hair colors than a male parrot (unless she's an amazing stylist, level headed metal head, etc...)

5.) Overly dramatic with her gestures and appears to have a fake accent (like she's auditioning for 'The Karen of Karens')

6.) You have to do a handstand, perform contortions, and utilize three vibrators for her to allegedly enjoy intimate encounters with you.

7.) Doesn't say 'thank you' or offer to do things for you here and there.

8.) Criticizes you in front of others. (Bonus points if she does it in front of your friends or family while she's the only guest.)

9.) Hyper jealous of any effort you put into anything that isn't reassuring her that she is your sole priority in life.

10.) Has to state that your achievements or station in life isn't noteworthy or is quick to mention all of her 'qualifiers' like you're about to hire her for a job. (Ie... "I've got a PHD in biochem, I'm an entrepreneur, an ordained minister, a rock climber, a kickboxer and an influencer.)

**These aren't necessarily my top ten or even a conclusive list of what I absolutely avoid, but they're the first 10 that came to my mind the easiest and fastest.**
 

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1.) Putting political matters front and center.

2.) Giving off the impression that you should or shouldn't do something for her express approval.

3.) Buzz cut for any other reason than medical reasons.

4.) More hair colors than a male parrot (unless she's an amazing stylist, level headed metal head, etc...)

5.) Overly dramatic with her gestures and appears to have a fake accent (like she's auditioning for 'The Karen of Karens')

6.) You have to do a handstand, perform contortions, and utilize three vibrators for her to allegedly enjoy intimate encounters with you.

7.) Doesn't say 'thank you' or offer to do things for you here and there.

8.) Criticizes you in front of others. (Bonus points if she does it in front of your friends or family while she's the only guest.)

9.) Hyper jealous of any effort you put into anything that isn't reassuring her that she is your sole priority in life.

10.) Has to state that your achievements or station in life isn't noteworthy or is quick to mention all of her 'qualifiers' like you're about to hire her for a job. (Ie... "I've got a PHD in biochem, I'm an entrepreneur, an ordained minister, a rock climber, a kickboxer and an influencer.)

**These aren't necessarily my top ten or even a conclusive list of what I absolutely avoid, but they're the first 10 that came to my mind the easiest and fastest.**
Good list, some of which are more obvious than others. Of the more subtle ones, I find no.10 particularly tiresome. Fake accents are really irritating as well.
 

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Something I've noticed lately:

-She believes in "manifesting" sh-t, and boasts of doing so

-The shrink she's going to and the "bibliotherapy" she's engaged in has her babbling about "holding space", "shadow selves", and all sorts of gruesome claptrap
 

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- ugly face
- Saggy breasts.
- Bucket fanny.
- Sends massive detailed text messages about inane sh1t (massive red flag tbh)
- can’t handle sexual innuendo.
- doesn’t give BJs
- Doesn’t like anything “kinky”
- starfishes when fvcked
- is silent when fvcked
- brags about her job /hobbies and name drops a lot re famous people places and things.(yawn)
- can’t cook.
- has an annoying accent or voice ( this can grow tho in fairness)
- has a sexy accent that can become annoying
- is Russian or Polish
- is Italian (maybe)
- is fat
- mainly likes cutesy girly stuff (yawn)
- plays a weird musical instrument such as a harmonica , or a Harp (maybe)

that’s about it.
 

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Like my recent experience of the girl who told me she was raped by her ex on our first date
I have this gut feeling, that she frequently visited that guy despite ending things?

starfishes when fvcked
What is the meaning of starfishes?
Wait okay I got it, and I have experienced this. The girl I am currently with flips between being a starfish 70% of the time, and active 30% of the time. Am I messed up or what?
 

Manure Spherian

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- She tells you she's a feminist. In my mind I hear "I have a free pass to be a **** whenever it pleases me".
I’m surprised seducers consider this a red flag.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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