"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your thoughts on Kat von d being born again?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
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I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
fair enough i take it your christian?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Of course.
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Taylor Alesia
She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:
If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.
Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
feel free to dm me.
fair enough I find alot of hypocrisy in the church especially born agains.
non denominational?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:
Taylor Alesia
Welcome to The Bible Chick YouTube channel! I’m Taylor Alesia. I began my journey to Jesus after experiencing the highs and lows of being a social media influencer. After incredible success that left me feeling broken and alone, Jesus restored me. I now use my platform only for the glory of God...www.youtube.com
She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:
If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.
Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
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I know eh. I sure know how to pick them. At least my video choices are in the right headspace. I have great tastes.
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Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
that i can respect seems like their is always a pastor getting hung out to dry.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.