Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.Only the sick need a doctor, not people who are well. She is cured if she really got born-again and you should listen to her testimony.
I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
fair enough i take it your christian?I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Of course.fair enough i take it your christian?
feel free to dm me.I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
fair enough I find alot of hypocrisy in the church especially born agains.I guess some people need to become Christian to wash away 'sins' most people don't struggle with.
non denominational?Of course.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:
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Taylor Alesia
Welcome to The Bible Chick YouTube channel! I’m Taylor Alesia. I began my journey to Jesus after experiencing the highs and lows of being a social media influencer. After incredible success that left me feeling broken and alone, Jesus restored me. I now use my platform only for the glory of God...www.youtube.com
She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:
If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.
Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
I know eh. I sure know how to pick them. At least my video choices are in the right headspace. I have great tastes.She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.
Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.non denominational?
that i can respect seems like their is always a pastor getting hung out to dry.Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.