Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.Only the sick need a doctor, not people who are well. She is cured if she really got born-again and you should listen to her testimony.
I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
fair enough i take it your christian?I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Of course.fair enough i take it your christian?
feel free to dm me.I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
fair enough I find alot of hypocrisy in the church especially born agains.I guess some people need to become Christian to wash away 'sins' most people don't struggle with.
non denominational?Of course.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:
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Taylor Alesia
Welcome to The Bible Chick YouTube channel! I’m Taylor Alesia. I began my journey to Jesus after experiencing the highs and lows of being a social media influencer. After incredible success that left me feeling broken and alone, Jesus restored me. I now use my platform only for the glory of God...www.youtube.com
She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:
If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.
Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
I know eh. I sure know how to pick them. At least my video choices are in the right headspace. I have great tastes.She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.
Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.non denominational?
that i can respect seems like their is always a pastor getting hung out to dry.Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.