"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your thoughts on Kat von d being born again?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Only the sick need a doctor, not people who are well. She is cured if she really got born-again and you should listen to her testimony.
 

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Only the sick need a doctor, not people who are well. She is cured if she really got born-again and you should listen to her testimony.
elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
 

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elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
 

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I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
fair enough i take it your christian?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:


She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:


If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.

Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
 

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I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
feel free to dm me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:


She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:


If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.

Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.
 

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She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.
I know eh. I sure know how to pick them. At least my video choices are in the right headspace. I have great tastes.
 
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non denominational?
Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
 

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Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
that i can respect seems like their is always a pastor getting hung out to dry.
 

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Wow, you should get out more. She's not bad looking, but she's not 'hot'. And definitely not 'extraordinary'. In fact, she looks kind of ordinary. Not dumping on her looks, but calling her 'extraordinarily hot' shows your aesthetic acumen.
I stand by my "acumen". :cool:

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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