She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.Only the sick need a doctor, not people who are well. She is cured if she really got born-again and you should listen to her testimony.
I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.elaborate dear sir i find alot of hypocrisy in born again christians.
fair enough i take it your christian?I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Of course.fair enough i take it your christian?
feel free to dm me.I feel baited into a religious discussion. The fact you are coming at this at a very critical angle means that you want to have some sort of relgious discussion or debate and that's contrary to the rules here. However, I will offer this: I give everyone the benefit of the doubt in their "changed" life unless they do something shocking afterwards that's contrary to their new professed life. Her past is now gone.
fair enough I find alot of hypocrisy in the church especially born agains.I guess some people need to become Christian to wash away 'sins' most people don't struggle with.
non denominational?Of course.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.There is a parasocial connection I have with this particular girl who has allot of Christian content:
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Taylor Alesia
Welcome to The Bible Chick YouTube channel! I’m Taylor Alesia. I began my journey to Jesus after experiencing the highs and lows of being a social media influencer. After incredible success that left me feeling broken and alone, Jesus restored me. I now use my platform only for the glory of God...www.youtube.com
She appears to be really legit. However, then I saw another channel with a similar name, but the first and last name is put up together and she posted a video that she used to be on Onlyfans:
If true, she is really distancing herself from whatever is putting on the other channel.
Again, her new Christian content (if it's the same person) is really legit. I like watching her when I'm like naked in the washroom (ie that is if I'm not really talking to any women in real life, as long as I don't fap or anything like that). Only listen to Christian messages in that way. I also included some videos of her to play in the cafeteria at work, if the circumstances there call for that.
I know eh. I sure know how to pick them. At least my video choices are in the right headspace. I have great tastes.She's extraordinarily hot. If any gal can pull off a complete re-virgining, she'd be the one.
Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.non denominational?
that i can respect seems like their is always a pastor getting hung out to dry.Yes. I don't go to church so I don't affiliate with any particular church. My mother is disabled at home and the set-up at home doesn't really lend itself to having any breathing space to do anything. However I do pray, look at Christian content (ie including church services and teaching messages) on a regular basis to stay in the zone.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.