"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You'll never get this p@ssy Sal!

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Question. I had this younger woman I know text me a picture of herself out of the blue a picture of her bent over in her panties, smiling and giving the middle finger with the text: You'll never get a piece of this p@ssy Sal!

I haven't spoken to this woman in over a year and it was just through FB. Before that a while back I knew her as an acquaintance (we have each others numbers).

I texted her back saying wrong guy and she said no right guy Sal, stop talking sh!t about me cuz you never had a chance anyway. I like bad boys.

I ignored it but it got me wondering if she wants me to chase? She did look damn good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A picture is worth a 1000 words.
I hear you. But it's wank material bait. I think she wants me to chase her because her FB says single. She's the type that likes the high roller bad boys and I'm not that type. She seems crazy. She's very hot but I don't know if I would get involved with her even for a piece.
 

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Chick is crazy and has a greater than thou attitude.

"You'll never get any of this glassguy"

-"who ever said I wanted it? I have all I want and can handle now. Not sure why you are even wasting your time messaging me."

Then go silent.
 

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Attention Ho: "You'll never get a piece of this pu$$y, LL".
LL: "yes I know, because I don't frequent the street corner where it's sold at. "
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attention Ho: "You'll never get a piece of this pu$$y, LL".
LL: "yes I know, because I don't frequent the street corner where it's sold at. "
Bat chit crazy attention ho. I'd stay away
 
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Attention Ho: "You'll never get a piece of this pu$$y, AS".
AS: "Haven't you ever heard of the law of supply and demand? The demand just isn't there, honey."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I texted her back again today and told her thanks for the p@ssy pic it gave my phone a virus. Then she replied stop stalking me Sal!

She must have had a nervous breakdown at one point in her life cuz I don't know what she's talking about.
 

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That's why we told you to kick this loser to the curb. I had a similar situation once.. Cut the girl off from all communications and never looked back. Chicks like this are trouble and have 0 to offer anyone
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Question. I had this younger woman I know text me a picture of herself out of the blue a picture of her bent over in her panties, smiling and giving the middle finger with the text: You'll never get a piece of this p@ssy Sal!

I haven't spoken to this woman in over a year and it was just through FB. Before that a while back I knew her as an acquaintance (we have each others numbers).

I texted her back saying wrong guy and she said no right guy Sal, stop talking sh!t about me cuz you never had a chance anyway. I like bad boys.

I ignored it but it got me wondering if she wants me to chase? She did look damn good.


She wants attention and another orbiter.

Best response to her would be "who is this?"
 

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Or you can play along dumb and act like you're being manipulated.. Then just disappear and flip the script around :D
 

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Should have replied
"Thank God! I can smell it all the way over here...might want to do something about that..."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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