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Don Juan
aren't you black? why would she call you a rascist. it's like the n word, black people can say it to black people and it's fine
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yeah, your name is like the term 'black irish' which is for people who are a bit more dark skinned, and it is thought to come from the wreck of the spanish armada of ireland.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.
Ninja out
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Black_Italian
Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?
I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.
That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".
That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.
So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.
Ninja out
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So what is it now because someone has said "you look good in white" before it means I cant say it to a girl? So if something has been said before in a movie or in porn then it shouldn’t be used in real life? This is logical isn’t it.Originally posted by jprjrjr
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!
You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.
Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.
If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do I need to explain it to you again? Do you find the concept hard to grasp? I made this post because I am confused about what she said because it made no sense. When do women make sense anyway?Originally posted by jprjrjr
Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.
Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
Um, I think that has been Black Italians point from the start, and his reason for posting this.Originally posted by jprjrjr
Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
ah ha you admit it was a lie!!! we all know theres no such thing as a HB10Originally posted by Black_Italian
I Loveee it when i have sex with a HB10 and i tell someone and they call me a liar.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.