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Don Juan
aren't you black? why would she call you a rascist. it's like the n word, black people can say it to black people and it's fine
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
yeah, your name is like the term 'black irish' which is for people who are a bit more dark skinned, and it is thought to come from the wreck of the spanish armada of ireland.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.
Ninja out
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Black_Italian
Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?
I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.
That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".
That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.
So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.
Ninja out
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So what is it now because someone has said "you look good in white" before it means I cant say it to a girl? So if something has been said before in a movie or in porn then it shouldn’t be used in real life? This is logical isn’t it.Originally posted by jprjrjr
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!
You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.
Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.
If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do I need to explain it to you again? Do you find the concept hard to grasp? I made this post because I am confused about what she said because it made no sense. When do women make sense anyway?Originally posted by jprjrjr
Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.
Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
Um, I think that has been Black Italians point from the start, and his reason for posting this.Originally posted by jprjrjr
Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
ah ha you admit it was a lie!!! we all know theres no such thing as a HB10Originally posted by Black_Italian
I Loveee it when i have sex with a HB10 and i tell someone and they call me a liar.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.