"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"You look so good in white"

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aren't you black? why would she call you a rascist. it's like the n word, black people can say it to black people and it's fine
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.

Ninja out
yeah, your name is like the term 'black irish' which is for people who are a bit more dark skinned, and it is thought to come from the wreck of the spanish armada of ireland.
 

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I'll tell you why it's bullshyt. IT MAKES NO SENSE!!!!!!

What is racist about saying "YOU LOOK GOOD IN WHITE"?

There's nothing remotely racist about that comment. A lot of darker skinned people look good in the color white. (I'm referring to clothing).....

But just because she's black...why would she get mad if someone says she looks good in white????

Think about this..it makes no fvcking sense....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?

I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.

That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".

That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.

So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?

I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.

That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".

That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.

So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.

Ninja out
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!

You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.

Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.

If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
 

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RULE 10!!!!!!!!!!!!

OF THE DJ TEN COMMANDMENTS!!!!


DO NOT PULL DOWN YOUR FELLOW DJ
THAT'S WHAT WOMEN DO!!!!!

If he's lying don't say nothing if you believe him congradulate!!

I swear some of you guys on here are probably girls at the comp because only chicks B!tch out if someone was lyin...

Im not defending him but yall need to STFU if you don't believe him....I was accused of lying by black italian but my D!ck in her pVssy was enough crediblity for me just wanted to share that...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No Spider im not trolling this is a serious post. Its funny though whenever someone post a sex story on here people accuse them of lying.

Originally posted by jprjrjr
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!

You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.

Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.

If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
So what is it now because someone has said "you look good in white" before it means I cant say it to a girl? So if something has been said before in a movie or in porn then it shouldn’t be used in real life? This is logical isn’t it.

I never said I came up with that phrase. I saw it in a porn movie years ago and it stuck with me. Now I say it when I c*m on a girls face.

She got angry at a comment that wasn’t intended to be racial. That is why a made the post. I made the post because she made no sense. I don’t see the problem as most women don’t make sense.

So if you want to accuse me of lying find a better reason.

Ninja out
 

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Why dont we ask the chicks on sosuave why she reacted this way. we all know some of the people posting on here are women, so why dont they give us thier opinions on this?


Black Italian

good job man, got you some pvssy, no strings attached. I have no ideas as to why she would throw you out though, makes no sence to me, but I am a guy, when was the last time something a woman did made sence to me, right?
 

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My point exactly and that was agood idea about asking some of the Sosuave.com girls. Brenbaus your a smart man.

Sosuave.com chicks have you girls got any idea why this girl reacted like this?

Ninja out
 
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Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.

Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.

Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
 

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^^^

Logic not needed when busting a fat nut on a girls face...

I just think it was natural for a black women to react like that you know and you kinda triggered her when you said that....and made her feel low..listen to it....


"baybe you look so Good n white"
blackgirlthoughts: OH!! this muthF.cka tryna say i don't look good n black?? like white will make me look betta?? and he got his hot steamy nut on my face? oh HELL NAW!!!

you get it??? no matter how you said it that's probably what she was thinkin....

p.s. JR I wasn't tryna jump on ya case it just urks me to see people challenge the credibilty of something they totally don't know about it is what it is if it wasn't that's that man's problem.

Sarge on..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.

Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.

Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
Do I need to explain it to you again? Do you find the concept hard to grasp? I made this post because I am confused about what she said because it made no sense. When do women make sense anyway?

I know myself that normally a person would not consider this racist so I am at a loss trying to figure out why she did. Arguing that her reaction made no sense only strengthens my point.

I am starting to think maybe when I said that she thought I meant that she would look better if she was white. That would be racist if she took it that way.

Ninja out
 

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Hehe, there should be a "safe words" list, maybe you should say:

You look so good in tartan.
 

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
Um, I think that has been Black Italians point from the start, and his reason for posting this.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
I Loveee it when i have sex with a HB10 and i tell someone and they call me a liar.
ah ha you admit it was a lie!!! we all know theres no such thing as a HB10 :p

j/k good job man
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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