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Don Juan
aren't you black? why would she call you a rascist. it's like the n word, black people can say it to black people and it's fine
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
yeah, your name is like the term 'black irish' which is for people who are a bit more dark skinned, and it is thought to come from the wreck of the spanish armada of ireland.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.
Ninja out
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Black_Italian
Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?
I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.
That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".
That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.
So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.
Ninja out
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So what is it now because someone has said "you look good in white" before it means I cant say it to a girl? So if something has been said before in a movie or in porn then it shouldn’t be used in real life? This is logical isn’t it.Originally posted by jprjrjr
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!
You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.
Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.
If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do I need to explain it to you again? Do you find the concept hard to grasp? I made this post because I am confused about what she said because it made no sense. When do women make sense anyway?Originally posted by jprjrjr
Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.
Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
Um, I think that has been Black Italians point from the start, and his reason for posting this.Originally posted by jprjrjr
Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
ah ha you admit it was a lie!!! we all know theres no such thing as a HB10Originally posted by Black_Italian
I Loveee it when i have sex with a HB10 and i tell someone and they call me a liar.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.