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Don Juan
aren't you black? why would she call you a rascist. it's like the n word, black people can say it to black people and it's fine
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah, your name is like the term 'black irish' which is for people who are a bit more dark skinned, and it is thought to come from the wreck of the spanish armada of ireland.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Im 100% Italian. I just got dark skin. So if i said Nigga to some gangsta in America chances are id get shot.
Ninja out
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Black_Italian
Let me ask you something. Since when has the female mind ever remotely made any sense?
I made this post because it didn’t make sense that she reacted the way she did.
That’s the point. I want some insight into why she reacted like this. I don’t want to be told im lying because a girls reaction "doesn’t make sense".
That is a stupid argument this website only exists because females don’t make sense to us. If they did there would be absolutely no problems in dating therefore sosuave.com wouldn’t need to exist.
So your argument that what she said doesn’t make sense is invalid flawed and idiotic.
Ninja out
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So what is it now because someone has said "you look good in white" before it means I cant say it to a girl? So if something has been said before in a movie or in porn then it shouldn’t be used in real life? This is logical isn’t it.Originally posted by jprjrjr
My argument is flawed, and idiotic? What you said makes no sense!!!!!!!!
You're making up a stupid story to get reactions. I guess I'm stupid for even pointing out your stupidity.
Your comment about looking good in white has been used before.
If you're going to write a script, quit using other people's work.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do I need to explain it to you again? Do you find the concept hard to grasp? I made this post because I am confused about what she said because it made no sense. When do women make sense anyway?Originally posted by jprjrjr
Only women call out liars? The convaluted logic of that statement is profound.
Why is it hard to believe? Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
Yall are some strang buck-a-roos....
Um, I think that has been Black Italians point from the start, and his reason for posting this.Originally posted by jprjrjr
Because it makes no ****ing sense. Nobody would regard that as a racist comment.
ah ha you admit it was a lie!!! we all know theres no such thing as a HB10Originally posted by Black_Italian
I Loveee it when i have sex with a HB10 and i tell someone and they call me a liar.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.