“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"You have beautiful eyes", what to come back with?

lizardfloyd

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What should I say whenever a girl tells me that I have beautiful eyes? I've never been able to think of anything clever enough to come back with to a genuine compliment?

I've been told this a million times my whole life, but always go blank or say the cliche', "Thanks". I was at the grocery store a moment ago and got told the same thing from the checker at the counter. She said "they look like the ocean" or something to that degree. I wasn't really attracted to her so i just said "yeah, i know".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Darth

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I had that question too awhile ago- I had been receiving that compliment a lot.

My standard response now is

"That's what my mom always told me." *grin*. "What's your name?"
 

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"You have beautiful eyes"



............... "and they're undressing you as we speak". ;)



Cheers!
 

chinwaggler

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if they are not an attention wh0re, and are giving a genuine compliment, just say thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aragon034

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"Yes, the window to my soul leads to a gentle pasture where sheep graze quietly next to a crystal clear waterfall, the kind of place you want to get lost in...(i'd go on for like 5 minutes)" (you've got to look off in the distance and get lost in the moment)

"Did you just come up with that?"

"No, but i'm tired of just saying 'thanks'. What'd you think?"

Continue conversation...
 

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"Thank you. Tell me more about me." :D
 

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Any comment about a physical feature is NOT a compliment. You had no choice in the matter, you were born with those eyes. The key is to NOT come up with a wise-ass answer because you don't want to slip into an approval seeking mindset, you need to move towards a chooser mindset. If you were to read into their comment, you'll find that what they're saying is that they find you attractive.

You could say "Oh I get that a lot" and follow up with "What's your name?" or even "Thanks...(pause)...what's your name?" and start a conversation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Effington

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A smartass comment to a compliment sounds pretty arrogant to me. A simple thank you is always a good path to take.
 

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I disagree with a simple thank you. It won't keep the conversation going, you kill it with just a thank you. I'd respond "you're jealous"
 

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Whenever a woman tells me that I have beautiful eyes I just look her straight in the eyes, and smile.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ready123

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Tenzen said:
I disagree with a simple thank you. It won't keep the conversation going, you kill it with just a thank you. I'd respond "you're jealous"
say thank you, then move the conversation forward on another thread, duh

and your response is trash. the girl gives you an IOI in the form of a genuine complement. you should be rewarding her to encourage her to keep the IOI's coming. a simple thank you does this. your wannabe c&f line doesn't
 

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not worth arguing, doesn't matter what u say back confidently.
 

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I don't get compliments on my eyes, I get them on my eyelashes. I still haven't come up with a witty comeback for that one.
 

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Hot Chica: You have really pretty eyes!

You: They're not real...

HC: What?

You: What do you look like? (Stare off into distance)

HC: Shut up!

You: You have a pretty voice. Oh well...

P.S. This is just a joke. All noobs reading this, don't listen to me. As many have said before, a simple "thank you" is enough. DJing doesn't revolve around pickup lines or canned phrases. It revolves around become a better person, and truly knowing that you're the best.
 

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I have't read all of the replies but

GUY YOU DON'T NEED 'COMEBACKS'

Just be honest a genuine. A sincere thank you is probably the best reply.

IF YOU TRY TO BE ****Y AND FUNNY WHEN SHE IS BEING SINCERE IT WILL SCREW IT UP!

I've done that way to many times back when I massively overrated ****yfunny and thought it was the answer to everything.

Say what you are thinking at the time.

"Wow... thank you, I don't know what to say"

BEING HONEST AND SPONTANEOUS THE BEST ANSWER

Although if she is in a playful mood or is saying it as a joke ****y/funny is GREAT!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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