"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You decide!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just a little info for everyone too. Just because eternal is in a LTR doesn't mean hes a chump. Infact, have a look at this poll I posted recently about what are people on this site looking for. When the smoke cleared from my poll the result was nearly 50/50 but infact LTR won by a small margin.
and...the link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58430
The TallOne
Don Juan
Its up to the reader to filter out the crap information, and use the good information.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, nobody is qualified to answer these questions unless they've actually been out sarging with the person, or unless definitive proof of some sort exists. While I may think that the girls Player_Supreme picks up look like street trash, the truth of the matter is that he IS out there banging them. See the point?
If you've ever seen a picture of Player Supreme you could tell in about 1 second that this guy has been around the block a few times. He knows the game inside out and although his ghetto/pimp lingo may lead some to believe he's not the smartest guy in the world. I urge you to read more of his stuff. You'll find all sorts of references to stuff that will go right over your head. Probably because you're too young or too ignorant. The man is very well read and highly intelligent. Not to mention he's one bad-ass mother-fawker.
My bet is that if Fanatizmu and Player Supreme were in the same room someone would pee their pants.
Crazykid has done a great job being a Mod around here. Can't understand why anyone would be flaming him.
Being a DJ and being Player ARE different things. What is really important isn't the label you place on a guy. Its whether or not they are successful with women in the way in which they desire.
Player Supreme is screwing everything in sight.
Crazykid is in a LTR.
Who cares.
They are both successful with women.
That is all that matters.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
You are neither godly nor KJ's but since that is the choice I have to make that they are both godly. because neither seem to be KJ's.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Either way the "behaviorist psychologist" is the mayor of Lamesville.
squirrels
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FreeStyleZ
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Do a search for the High School forum.Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
no diserspect to eternal.. he's a great mod, but ive never seen anything from him about getting women or advice of any kind. Not to say he doesnt know about getting women, just that ive never seen him say anything other than "Moved to everything else"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PuertoRican_Lover
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Firstly, I am th GOD of SoSuave and I am the KING of 'Keyboard Jockeys - no one can take this title from me!!! If me and player S. (and other wise elders) were not here giving you manly counsel many of you young bastards would be receiving effeminate womanly advice, the same as those homos and hors who control the media.
We are undoing the damage of what a generation of feminist hors and homos, through all of their media outlets, have done to emasculate the male and make a hardened hor THE King of the household.
It is going to take more than 3,000 posts to clean up the carnage - maybe a lifetime. (PR_L pauses and checks his calendar) Yep, I have time!!!!!
CrazyKid, you are doing a good job moderating - Don't let others get under your skin! I envy you, I wish I had a woman by my side who I can remotely trust!! Only keep a woman If she is a 'keeper'!
rgeere
Master Don Juan
So, I give them both props for that.
Player_Supreme
Banned
and that other guy?
You fella's shouldn't have!!! Now I'm blushing....
Player_Supreme
Banned
I guess your now about to become an ex god of pimpin PRL...hahahaha!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Player_Supreme
Banned
I guess I must be part attention horr cause I do love it.
Who would of ever thought you and I from complete opposite ends of the game would be linked together.
Ok side kick back to the fun
Blue Phoenix
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Take a look:
PRL
Player supreme
Eternal
Squirrels
Rgeere
Baseballdj
Slickster
The bishop
All of them are masters djs.
I'm not even a senior one. If I were a master maybe I could participate in this pool. lol!
Player_Supreme
Banned
As for my posts it's been there the whole time. Only those with real game can see game...you know what I mean.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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