Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do a search for the High School forum.Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
no diserspect to eternal.. he's a great mod, but ive never seen anything from him about getting women or advice of any kind. Not to say he doesnt know about getting women, just that ive never seen him say anything other than "Moved to everything else"![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I guess your now about to become an ex god of pimpin PRL...hahahaha!!!Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Hahahaha, you guys make me laugh!
Firstly, I am th GOD of SoSuave and I am the KING of 'Keyboard Jockeys - no one can take this title from me!!! If me and player S. (and other wise elders) were not here giving you manly counsel many of you young bastards would be receiving effeminate womanly advice, the same as those homos and hors who control the media.
We are undoing the damage of what a generation of feminist hors and homos, through all of their media outlets, have done to emasculate the male and make a hardened hor THE King of the household.
It is going to take more than 3,000 posts to clean up the carnage - maybe a lifetime. (PR_L pauses and checks his calendar) Yep, I have time!!!!!
CrazyKid, you are doing a good job moderating - Don't let others get under your skin! I envy you, I wish I had a woman by my side who I can remotely trust!! Only keep a woman If she is a 'keeper'!
"And that other guy?"Originally posted by Player_Supreme
DAM ALL THIS ATTENTION FOR JUST LIL OLE ME???
and that other guy?
You fella's shouldn't have!!! Now I'm blushing....
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
*Hears theme music* WOO!Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Eternal I knew you would. This is the funniest shyt I've seen in a long time. I can't stop chuckling. Thank you so much for putting up this thread.
I guess I must be part attention horr cause I do love it.
Who would of ever thought you and I from complete opposite ends of the game would be linked together.
Ok side kick back to the fun
As for my posts it's been there the whole time. Only those with real game can see game...you know what I mean.Originally posted by eternal
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I'm just waiting for "Bible Material!"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.