"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You decide!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just a little info for everyone too. Just because eternal is in a LTR doesn't mean hes a chump. Infact, have a look at this poll I posted recently about what are people on this site looking for. When the smoke cleared from my poll the result was nearly 50/50 but infact LTR won by a small margin.
and...the link:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=58430
The TallOne
Don Juan
Its up to the reader to filter out the crap information, and use the good information.
diablo
Master Don Juan
By the way, nobody is qualified to answer these questions unless they've actually been out sarging with the person, or unless definitive proof of some sort exists. While I may think that the girls Player_Supreme picks up look like street trash, the truth of the matter is that he IS out there banging them. See the point?
If you've ever seen a picture of Player Supreme you could tell in about 1 second that this guy has been around the block a few times. He knows the game inside out and although his ghetto/pimp lingo may lead some to believe he's not the smartest guy in the world. I urge you to read more of his stuff. You'll find all sorts of references to stuff that will go right over your head. Probably because you're too young or too ignorant. The man is very well read and highly intelligent. Not to mention he's one bad-ass mother-fawker.
My bet is that if Fanatizmu and Player Supreme were in the same room someone would pee their pants.
Crazykid has done a great job being a Mod around here. Can't understand why anyone would be flaming him.
Being a DJ and being Player ARE different things. What is really important isn't the label you place on a guy. Its whether or not they are successful with women in the way in which they desire.
Player Supreme is screwing everything in sight.
Crazykid is in a LTR.
Who cares.
They are both successful with women.
That is all that matters.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
You are neither godly nor KJ's but since that is the choice I have to make that they are both godly. because neither seem to be KJ's.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Either way the "behaviorist psychologist" is the mayor of Lamesville.
squirrels
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FreeStyleZ
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Do a search for the High School forum.Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
no diserspect to eternal.. he's a great mod, but ive never seen anything from him about getting women or advice of any kind. Not to say he doesnt know about getting women, just that ive never seen him say anything other than "Moved to everything else"
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Firstly, I am th GOD of SoSuave and I am the KING of 'Keyboard Jockeys - no one can take this title from me!!! If me and player S. (and other wise elders) were not here giving you manly counsel many of you young bastards would be receiving effeminate womanly advice, the same as those homos and hors who control the media.
We are undoing the damage of what a generation of feminist hors and homos, through all of their media outlets, have done to emasculate the male and make a hardened hor THE King of the household.
It is going to take more than 3,000 posts to clean up the carnage - maybe a lifetime. (PR_L pauses and checks his calendar) Yep, I have time!!!!!
CrazyKid, you are doing a good job moderating - Don't let others get under your skin! I envy you, I wish I had a woman by my side who I can remotely trust!! Only keep a woman If she is a 'keeper'!
rgeere
Master Don Juan
So, I give them both props for that.
Player_Supreme
Banned
and that other guy?
You fella's shouldn't have!!! Now I'm blushing....
Player_Supreme
Banned
I guess your now about to become an ex god of pimpin PRL...hahahaha!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Player_Supreme
Banned
I guess I must be part attention horr cause I do love it.
Who would of ever thought you and I from complete opposite ends of the game would be linked together.
Ok side kick back to the fun
Blue Phoenix
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Take a look:
PRL
Player supreme
Eternal
Squirrels
Rgeere
Baseballdj
Slickster
The bishop
All of them are masters djs.
I'm not even a senior one. If I were a master maybe I could participate in this pool. lol!
Player_Supreme
Banned
As for my posts it's been there the whole time. Only those with real game can see game...you know what I mean.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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