SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Found all my relationships with OLD
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can't win if you don't play...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Here is the thing that will start this conversation off right:
Orbiting works.
Yes, orbiting is a perfectly valid strategy, if you have your life together... In fact, this is really all a guy has to do, simply allow himself to orbit... It is not a social gathering, it is a chance for you to orbit.
Will women make moves on successful men who orbit? Let me rephrase this question, is the sky blue?
The thing is, what makes women desire you, as an orbiter, is when you give them a taste of the lifestyle they can't have... Most will deny the taste, they'll refuse it, but in social circles, under the pretense of a gathering, she is subject to your lifestyle.
Orbiting is all about posturing, you can orbit successfully without ever saying a word, just inject your presence, let her see your lifestyle and she will come to her own conclusions.
If you don't have your **** together, you can't really orbit like that... But I'll tell you, successfully orbiting and having her do all the work, you feel like a King and other guys watching just stand there in amazement, because they know they can't do what you just did and more importantly, she knows it.
But yeah, I do agree, most young men on here, orbiting is a terrible idea
Orbiting works.
Yes, orbiting is a perfectly valid strategy, if you have your life together... In fact, this is really all a guy has to do, simply allow himself to orbit... It is not a social gathering, it is a chance for you to orbit.
Will women make moves on successful men who orbit? Let me rephrase this question, is the sky blue?
The thing is, what makes women desire you, as an orbiter, is when you give them a taste of the lifestyle they can't have... Most will deny the taste, they'll refuse it, but in social circles, under the pretense of a gathering, she is subject to your lifestyle.
Orbiting is all about posturing, you can orbit successfully without ever saying a word, just inject your presence, let her see your lifestyle and she will come to her own conclusions.
If you don't have your **** together, you can't really orbit like that... But I'll tell you, successfully orbiting and having her do all the work, you feel like a King and other guys watching just stand there in amazement, because they know they can't do what you just did and more importantly, she knows it.
But yeah, I do agree, most young men on here, orbiting is a terrible idea
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
and what exactly are we winning in this lottery? I know a lot of guys that thought they won something only to find out a few years later they were big losers. I want to play when i feel like it and on my terms when i do feel like playing.
SargeMaximus
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That’s what I do. What’s the issue?
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
the misnomer that you actually win something if you play. Life time of headache is usually what you win.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gym > pua