"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most girls like a few extra pounds
this I agree with!

...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.


but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys spend endless hours in the gym trying to look good enough to get women

Guys spend endless hours on the web trying to learn tricks to pick up women

Guys spend valuable time working overtime to try and get money to pick up women

What do they do when they get that money. Spend it on a woman or on things to try and impress one

You men need to come back to earth
So in other words you derive your personal sexuality power and identity from the idea that there are millions of stupid insecure men who are trying to compensate for natural social ability with women by ONLY getting buff, learning tricks, and increasing the size of individual bank accounts? Guys who else can't see that this is a superficial self righteous b!tch?

haha oh man you're a real peach huh? Miss a few hugs growing up?
 

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Originally posted by tseluca
That's ok, because when you are 40 you will be bald, you pencil penis will work 10% of the time, and you will need and endless supply of viagra to keep up with a woman at her sexual peak.
it's ok, i'll have a shalow 22 year old help me get it up.:D

oh and

i'd rather have a bald head and fat stomec (adds charector) then a flobby cellulite dimpled legs
 

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No, I am not bitter at all, I have had 2 great relationships since him, and I am greatfull that I didn't end up with him seeing the position he is in now.

No, I don't derive my sexual power from anywhere. none of that stuff impresses me in the least. I am just simply stating the guys that bash me for giving advice are the first to do all these silly things to try and get a girl like me,.

It is funny how fast all these mature DJ's resort to sill neame calling and childish games

frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
 

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Sorry, I will never be fat and have celulite. It is genetic and doesn't run in my family

If you wish to buy the love of a 22 year old when you are 40 so be it, but you will live an unfulfiled life. I am sure her and viagra will have no problem helping you get it up, just be sure not to gain too much weight, viagra and overweighness have lead to heart attacks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You know, I am really interested in what some of you guys look like.

If you want to swap pics, email me at @yahoo.com
 

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I'd really like to know what a guy would have to do to pick up a babe like yourself.
 

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listen I get your point.


and I spend my days here at ss now trying to get these guys a clue...

instead of the massive skewed perception they are all buying into.

I know that the DJ bible has great attraction tips into it

but the women hating is rediculous.

ive said over and over again you dont need
muscle
money
or some alpha male status to get women.

the thing this..a lot of these guys grew up without a good father, they have no real self esteem..yet give each other advice.

when some guy like (.)(.) shows up they listen for whatever reason..

also they have never BEEN truely loved by a women.

Ive been loved by 3, including the current 1 who is prego.

a womens love is more iron clad then a mans love.
believe it.

http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21
 

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You know, the guy in the second pic isn't that bad looking at all.

For health and sexual reasons he should loose some weight. But with a great personality I don't see him having problems getting a woman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shut up reprobate.
 

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Friv

Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.

I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.

Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.

Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
 

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Friv

Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.

I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.

Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.

Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing

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exactly.....my gf's best friend just got completely f'ed over by her bf. and another friends husband cheated.

she doesnt say oh men are terrible.

no, she says well im glad I have a great one.

whats more interesting is a lot of these guys have really good mothers...but they are anti women.


even if women were so called bad.....so what? there are still good ones....my gf's friends are all datable honest women..who are cute.

maybe these guys go for the half naked women dancing on bars
 

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Do women find it attractive to make out during the song Rush - Red Barchetta?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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now these guys want to hate on you friv

very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
 

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now these guys want to hate on you friv

very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.

these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
 

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Never heard of it, but if it has a ggod beat and some rythhm, I will get down with it playing in the background
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
now these guys want to hate on you friv

very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.

these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
lol.
I'm not glorifying the methods produced on this board for picking up woman, but you're a reprobate. You're 23, got a girl pregnant and have over 2200 post on here. LOSER!
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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