frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this I agree with!Most girls like a few extra pounds
...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
this I agree with!Most girls like a few extra pounds
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
So in other words you derive your personal sexuality power and identity from the idea that there are millions of stupid insecure men who are trying to compensate for natural social ability with women by ONLY getting buff, learning tricks, and increasing the size of individual bank accounts? Guys who else can't see that this is a superficial self righteous b!tch?Guys spend endless hours in the gym trying to look good enough to get women
Guys spend endless hours on the web trying to learn tricks to pick up women
Guys spend valuable time working overtime to try and get money to pick up women
What do they do when they get that money. Spend it on a woman or on things to try and impress one
You men need to come back to earth
it's ok, i'll have a shalow 22 year old help me get it up.Originally posted by tseluca
That's ok, because when you are 40 you will be bald, you pencil penis will work 10% of the time, and you will need and endless supply of viagra to keep up with a woman at her sexual peak.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
that's because he is a transvestideOriginally posted by tseluca
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
Shut up reprobate.frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: belleville, il
Posts: 2274
Age: 23!!!!!!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lol.Originally posted by frivolousz21
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.