frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this I agree with!
...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
you can bash me all you want
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...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
So in other words you derive your personal sexuality power and identity from the idea that there are millions of stupid insecure men who are trying to compensate for natural social ability with women by ONLY getting buff, learning tricks, and increasing the size of individual bank accounts? Guys who else can't see that this is a superficial self righteous b!tch?
haha oh man you're a real peach huh? Miss a few hugs growing up?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
it's ok, i'll have a shalow 22 year old help me get it up.
oh and
i'd rather have a bald head and fat stomec (adds charector) then a flobby cellulite dimpled legs
tseluca
Don Juan
No, I am not bitter at all, I have had 2 great relationships since him, and I am greatfull that I didn't end up with him seeing the position he is in now.
No, I don't derive my sexual power from anywhere. none of that stuff impresses me in the least. I am just simply stating the guys that bash me for giving advice are the first to do all these silly things to try and get a girl like me,.
It is funny how fast all these mature DJ's resort to sill neame calling and childish games
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
No, I don't derive my sexual power from anywhere. none of that stuff impresses me in the least. I am just simply stating the guys that bash me for giving advice are the first to do all these silly things to try and get a girl like me,.
It is funny how fast all these mature DJ's resort to sill neame calling and childish games
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
tseluca
Don Juan
Sorry, I will never be fat and have celulite. It is genetic and doesn't run in my family
If you wish to buy the love of a 22 year old when you are 40 so be it, but you will live an unfulfiled life. I am sure her and viagra will have no problem helping you get it up, just be sure not to gain too much weight, viagra and overweighness have lead to heart attacks
If you wish to buy the love of a 22 year old when you are 40 so be it, but you will live an unfulfiled life. I am sure her and viagra will have no problem helping you get it up, just be sure not to gain too much weight, viagra and overweighness have lead to heart attacks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well you said that women like a few extra pounds, which is true. But what about fat asses?
Take this guy on the right.
http://www.wklq.com/photos/Staind%20at%20Orbit%20Room%206-4-03/New%20Folder/klq_fat_guy_ty_shows_off_man_boobs_6-4-03_10750.jpg
or this bastard.
http://www.crazyeric.com/images/2005/06/fat_guy.jpg
Take this guy on the right.
http://www.wklq.com/photos/Staind%20at%20Orbit%20Room%206-4-03/New%20Folder/klq_fat_guy_ty_shows_off_man_boobs_6-4-03_10750.jpg
or this bastard.
http://www.crazyeric.com/images/2005/06/fat_guy.jpg
tseluca
Don Juan
You know, I am really interested in what some of you guys look like.
If you want to swap pics, email me at @yahoo.com
If you want to swap pics, email me at @yahoo.com
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
listen I get your point.
and I spend my days here at ss now trying to get these guys a clue...
instead of the massive skewed perception they are all buying into.
I know that the DJ bible has great attraction tips into it
but the women hating is rediculous.
ive said over and over again you dont need
muscle
money
or some alpha male status to get women.
the thing this..a lot of these guys grew up without a good father, they have no real self esteem..yet give each other advice.
when some guy like (.)(.) shows up they listen for whatever reason..
also they have never BEEN truely loved by a women.
Ive been loved by 3, including the current 1 who is prego.
a womens love is more iron clad then a mans love.
believe it.
http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21
and I spend my days here at ss now trying to get these guys a clue...
instead of the massive skewed perception they are all buying into.
I know that the DJ bible has great attraction tips into it
but the women hating is rediculous.
ive said over and over again you dont need
muscle
money
or some alpha male status to get women.
the thing this..a lot of these guys grew up without a good father, they have no real self esteem..yet give each other advice.
when some guy like (.)(.) shows up they listen for whatever reason..
also they have never BEEN truely loved by a women.
Ive been loved by 3, including the current 1 who is prego.
a womens love is more iron clad then a mans love.
believe it.
http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21
tseluca
Don Juan
You know, the guy in the second pic isn't that bad looking at all.
For health and sexual reasons he should loose some weight. But with a great personality I don't see him having problems getting a woman.
For health and sexual reasons he should loose some weight. But with a great personality I don't see him having problems getting a woman.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
that's because he is a transvestide
tseluca
Don Juan
Friv
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Friv
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
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exactly.....my gf's best friend just got completely f'ed over by her bf. and another friends husband cheated.
she doesnt say oh men are terrible.
no, she says well im glad I have a great one.
whats more interesting is a lot of these guys have really good mothers...but they are anti women.
even if women were so called bad.....so what? there are still good ones....my gf's friends are all datable honest women..who are cute.
maybe these guys go for the half naked women dancing on bars
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
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exactly.....my gf's best friend just got completely f'ed over by her bf. and another friends husband cheated.
she doesnt say oh men are terrible.
no, she says well im glad I have a great one.
whats more interesting is a lot of these guys have really good mothers...but they are anti women.
even if women were so called bad.....so what? there are still good ones....my gf's friends are all datable honest women..who are cute.
maybe these guys go for the half naked women dancing on bars
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
tseluca
Don Juan
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
tseluca
Don Juan
Never heard of it, but if it has a ggod beat and some rythhm, I will get down with it playing in the background
Also,
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91715
Check out this thread. Tell me what you think.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91715
Check out this thread. Tell me what you think.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.