frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this I agree with!
...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you can bash me all you want
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...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Qmanchoo
Don Juan
So in other words you derive your personal sexuality power and identity from the idea that there are millions of stupid insecure men who are trying to compensate for natural social ability with women by ONLY getting buff, learning tricks, and increasing the size of individual bank accounts? Guys who else can't see that this is a superficial self righteous b!tch?
haha oh man you're a real peach huh? Miss a few hugs growing up?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
it's ok, i'll have a shalow 22 year old help me get it up.
oh and
i'd rather have a bald head and fat stomec (adds charector) then a flobby cellulite dimpled legs
tseluca
Don Juan
No, I am not bitter at all, I have had 2 great relationships since him, and I am greatfull that I didn't end up with him seeing the position he is in now.
No, I don't derive my sexual power from anywhere. none of that stuff impresses me in the least. I am just simply stating the guys that bash me for giving advice are the first to do all these silly things to try and get a girl like me,.
It is funny how fast all these mature DJ's resort to sill neame calling and childish games
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
No, I don't derive my sexual power from anywhere. none of that stuff impresses me in the least. I am just simply stating the guys that bash me for giving advice are the first to do all these silly things to try and get a girl like me,.
It is funny how fast all these mature DJ's resort to sill neame calling and childish games
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
tseluca
Don Juan
Sorry, I will never be fat and have celulite. It is genetic and doesn't run in my family
If you wish to buy the love of a 22 year old when you are 40 so be it, but you will live an unfulfiled life. I am sure her and viagra will have no problem helping you get it up, just be sure not to gain too much weight, viagra and overweighness have lead to heart attacks
If you wish to buy the love of a 22 year old when you are 40 so be it, but you will live an unfulfiled life. I am sure her and viagra will have no problem helping you get it up, just be sure not to gain too much weight, viagra and overweighness have lead to heart attacks
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well you said that women like a few extra pounds, which is true. But what about fat asses?
Take this guy on the right.
http://www.wklq.com/photos/Staind%20at%20Orbit%20Room%206-4-03/New%20Folder/klq_fat_guy_ty_shows_off_man_boobs_6-4-03_10750.jpg
or this bastard.
http://www.crazyeric.com/images/2005/06/fat_guy.jpg
Take this guy on the right.
http://www.wklq.com/photos/Staind%20at%20Orbit%20Room%206-4-03/New%20Folder/klq_fat_guy_ty_shows_off_man_boobs_6-4-03_10750.jpg
or this bastard.
http://www.crazyeric.com/images/2005/06/fat_guy.jpg
tseluca
Don Juan
You know, I am really interested in what some of you guys look like.
If you want to swap pics, email me at @yahoo.com
If you want to swap pics, email me at @yahoo.com
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
listen I get your point.
and I spend my days here at ss now trying to get these guys a clue...
instead of the massive skewed perception they are all buying into.
I know that the DJ bible has great attraction tips into it
but the women hating is rediculous.
ive said over and over again you dont need
muscle
money
or some alpha male status to get women.
the thing this..a lot of these guys grew up without a good father, they have no real self esteem..yet give each other advice.
when some guy like (.)(.) shows up they listen for whatever reason..
also they have never BEEN truely loved by a women.
Ive been loved by 3, including the current 1 who is prego.
a womens love is more iron clad then a mans love.
believe it.
http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21
and I spend my days here at ss now trying to get these guys a clue...
instead of the massive skewed perception they are all buying into.
I know that the DJ bible has great attraction tips into it
but the women hating is rediculous.
ive said over and over again you dont need
muscle
money
or some alpha male status to get women.
the thing this..a lot of these guys grew up without a good father, they have no real self esteem..yet give each other advice.
when some guy like (.)(.) shows up they listen for whatever reason..
also they have never BEEN truely loved by a women.
Ive been loved by 3, including the current 1 who is prego.
a womens love is more iron clad then a mans love.
believe it.
http://www.myspace.com/frivolousz21
tseluca
Don Juan
You know, the guy in the second pic isn't that bad looking at all.
For health and sexual reasons he should loose some weight. But with a great personality I don't see him having problems getting a woman.
For health and sexual reasons he should loose some weight. But with a great personality I don't see him having problems getting a woman.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
that's because he is a transvestide
tseluca
Don Juan
Friv
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Friv
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
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exactly.....my gf's best friend just got completely f'ed over by her bf. and another friends husband cheated.
she doesnt say oh men are terrible.
no, she says well im glad I have a great one.
whats more interesting is a lot of these guys have really good mothers...but they are anti women.
even if women were so called bad.....so what? there are still good ones....my gf's friends are all datable honest women..who are cute.
maybe these guys go for the half naked women dancing on bars
Congtats on the baby, I wish you well.
I am glad to see there is a man out there who understands. Your woman is lucky to have you.
Like I said in theory what these guys say is true. Confidence is key, but they go about it the wrong way, and women bashing will get them nowhere. At least not with quality women.
Besides True DJ's wouldnd resort to women bashing
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exactly.....my gf's best friend just got completely f'ed over by her bf. and another friends husband cheated.
she doesnt say oh men are terrible.
no, she says well im glad I have a great one.
whats more interesting is a lot of these guys have really good mothers...but they are anti women.
even if women were so called bad.....so what? there are still good ones....my gf's friends are all datable honest women..who are cute.
maybe these guys go for the half naked women dancing on bars
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tseluca
Don Juan
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
tseluca
Don Juan
Never heard of it, but if it has a ggod beat and some rythhm, I will get down with it playing in the background
Also,
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91715
Check out this thread. Tell me what you think.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=91715
Check out this thread. Tell me what you think.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.