frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
this I agree with!Most girls like a few extra pounds
...for whatever reason I think women are attracted to a man with a little extra on them.
but are you bitter that the man you loved didnt grow up?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
this I agree with!Most girls like a few extra pounds
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So in other words you derive your personal sexuality power and identity from the idea that there are millions of stupid insecure men who are trying to compensate for natural social ability with women by ONLY getting buff, learning tricks, and increasing the size of individual bank accounts? Guys who else can't see that this is a superficial self righteous b!tch?Guys spend endless hours in the gym trying to look good enough to get women
Guys spend endless hours on the web trying to learn tricks to pick up women
Guys spend valuable time working overtime to try and get money to pick up women
What do they do when they get that money. Spend it on a woman or on things to try and impress one
You men need to come back to earth
it's ok, i'll have a shalow 22 year old help me get it up.Originally posted by tseluca
That's ok, because when you are 40 you will be bald, you pencil penis will work 10% of the time, and you will need and endless supply of viagra to keep up with a woman at her sexual peak.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
that's because he is a transvestideOriginally posted by tseluca
frivilous seems to be the only one who gets it
Shut up reprobate.frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Registered: Sep 2004
Location: belleville, il
Posts: 2274
Age: 23!!!!!!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lol.Originally posted by frivolousz21
now these guys want to hate on you friv
very very funny. I wouldn't even bother trying to help them any more
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its been lke this since id say april..when I put my real life expierence with my knowledge on here together..and realized that emotions play the biggest role.
these guys try to go agaisnt there real emotions..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.