"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
****y+Funny... Gimme some examples
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"I think you look very good"
"Well you know, when I see myself in the mirror I feel I need to kiss myself, don't you feel the need to kiss me too when you see me? *with a voice showing you are joking*"
"Well you should be afraid, I have kissed many women and at least one have told me I was a good kisser."
One which work awesome for me WHEN YOU HAVE GOOD RAPPORT is:
*girl do something remotly sexy"
"Ohh my god... hide your impulses woman!" (actually sounds different in swedish)
"You knpw, I often think of the word fantastic... I think a better word would be Lifeforce... when you tell someone they are fantastic when they play something you could say they are lifeforce. I think that would make me justice, don't you? *with a voice showing you are joking*"
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
girl gives me liquorice to give to her friend.
Shes like "muttley pass me the liqorice"
im like "open your mouth ,go 'AAAAHHHH' and ill throw it into your mouth" lolz
me and 2 female friends smoking cigarette:
girl 1 "damn you totally killed that cig quick"
muttley"thats cos she has a third lung and no stomach"
girl 1+ 2: LOLOLOL and girl2 smacks muttley on arm jokingly
girl telling me her knees are hurting bad:
girl:"my knee joints really hurt i cant walk
"muttley: "whys that, have u been playing soccer all day and wearing football boots
"girl: "no lol, i was out dancing all last nite" , smacks muttley on arm
muttley:" oh if thats the case i can rub your legs like mr miyagi does to karate kid
"thats a few examples of c+f in reall experiences
its not an act, im just like that naturally
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Confident & Funny. Not ****y.
I donno about the offer to rub her legs though, sounds kinda chump-ish.
That's just plain arrogance. Sounds kind of gay too. I can just see a gay guy saying this, and flicking his wrist as he does.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.