"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
****y+Funny... Gimme some examples
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
"I think you look very good"
"Well you know, when I see myself in the mirror I feel I need to kiss myself, don't you feel the need to kiss me too when you see me? *with a voice showing you are joking*"
"Well you should be afraid, I have kissed many women and at least one have told me I was a good kisser."
One which work awesome for me WHEN YOU HAVE GOOD RAPPORT is:
*girl do something remotly sexy"
"Ohh my god... hide your impulses woman!" (actually sounds different in swedish)
"You knpw, I often think of the word fantastic... I think a better word would be Lifeforce... when you tell someone they are fantastic when they play something you could say they are lifeforce. I think that would make me justice, don't you? *with a voice showing you are joking*"
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/wms.pdf
girl gives me liquorice to give to her friend.
Shes like "muttley pass me the liqorice"
im like "open your mouth ,go 'AAAAHHHH' and ill throw it into your mouth" lolz
me and 2 female friends smoking cigarette:
girl 1 "damn you totally killed that cig quick"
muttley"thats cos she has a third lung and no stomach"
girl 1+ 2: LOLOLOL and girl2 smacks muttley on arm jokingly
girl telling me her knees are hurting bad:
girl:"my knee joints really hurt i cant walk
"muttley: "whys that, have u been playing soccer all day and wearing football boots
"girl: "no lol, i was out dancing all last nite" , smacks muttley on arm
muttley:" oh if thats the case i can rub your legs like mr miyagi does to karate kid
"thats a few examples of c+f in reall experiences
its not an act, im just like that naturally
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Confident & Funny. Not ****y.
I donno about the offer to rub her legs though, sounds kinda chump-ish.
That's just plain arrogance. Sounds kind of gay too. I can just see a gay guy saying this, and flicking his wrist as he does.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.