"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Would you make a video of you and your partner?
- Thread starter SheDevil
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Although i dont have a video cam i do have a digi cam that records short video clips ive been using.
I started by being discreet about it, hiding it behind some books on my shelf. Then i just busted it out on wednesday and she was totally into it, making me promise not to put it on the net tho. -__-
I sort of have a bet going on this topic.
I feel many couples WOULD want to do this, for fun or for curiosity,as long as they knew it would be kept private.
Some friends of mine, both males and females, said that most couples would NOT want to do this. To top it off, they called it a rather "twisted idea".
I wish I could do a 'poll' with this question, but I am just not that computer savvy. I feel I would get more reponses and keep the thread very short.
Yes, that was a hint. Any helpers?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You're welcome. Next time though think out your thread instead of asking people to make duplicates... it keeps the forum less cluttered.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Brother_Rapp
Banned
yay... Don Juan p0rn :crackup: hmmm.... Wyldfire.... I'm still waiting for the "movie" you promised meOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
My girlfriend and I are going to make one soon. She brings it up a lot.
Maybe I'll put it up on the internet for you guys.
....Especially you Wyldfire. :yes:
Let's see, what was going thru my head when I polled the question: "If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you?"
Um, I was thinking -- "If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you?
It was an obvious question, a simple 'Yes' or 'No' is all that is required from you.
I will consider you a 'NO' vote, since you felt my thread "demented". (Which I find very sad, BTW)
Now, you must admit, you pulled this 9 day old thread out of its peaceful rest ONLY because you wanted to stir something.
You got all pissy and wanted to stomp on the women who dare to challenge your integrity, or lack thereof, because they got sassy with you on your "kicking a woman's a$s" chronicle.
I have to wonder, what would you have done if I were within your reach? Hmmm?
I feel you are the male version of an attention *****, I bet you record the number of views and replies and get off on this hallucininatory impact you feel you are having on people. Are book sales really that slow?
To me your post are outreaches or a search for validity:
Maybe you want to blame your mommy for your down falls in life, so you come up with this "single mom" saga.
Maybe you had to withhold monies from your wife so she couldnt run off, so you invented the "traditional marriage" epistle.
And just maybe you "kicked a woman ass" and you want someone to tell you that 'you are the man'!
I think you should take the high road and be accountable for your own actions, but you won't, you will continue to try to find someone who will pat you on the hand and give you this dillusional approval you so desparately seek.
Soon there will be more polls, laced with evasive text, misleading topics and open-ended questions in order to get you the attention you so frantically desire.
One thing you should take into consideration, the majority of people on this site see right through you.
If you want advise, ask for it.
If you want help, state your delimma.
This isnt the place for you to come to seek support for your past life. I just dont think you will find the appreciation you are looking for.
Gook luck in your quest,
SheDevil
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ShortTimer
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Bring video camera...
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